She "doesnt want a boyfriend"? i need help from the ladies

This is terrible advice. "Romance the hell out of her"...really man? Sounds like a surefire way to prove to her you're just like every other guy willing to bend over backward for her bullshit. Best thing to do is ignore her or act like you're over it while still managing to keep sexual tension.

My best guess is you were too into her too fast. "We were meant to be together" "we were so perfect for each other" blahhh blah blahh. These are typical dude fell way too fast for girl and girl got scared because dude was more into her than she wanted him to be phrases. Sounds like you were only hanging out and doing stuff for a couple weeks. Why push for the boyfriend thing and not just keep things fun and undefined? Would have worked much better.

Remember that relationships are something of a power balance. If you've shown all your cards you come off as weak, boring, and just like every other guy that makes shallow passes at her (and if she's hot she sees this a lot). What you need to do is keep things interesting, fun and most of all exciting. Excitement early in relationship is what gets her heart going and makes her into you, not being sappy and getting limp noodle syndrome.

Good luck with it. Sounds like you're young so at least this will be a good learning experience for the future.
 
'hurt' is code for being used

me thinks you took it too fast and seeing as she's a virgin, she's scared/unsure of the prospect of losing her v-card and then getting dumped. she's held on to it for a reason, and sadly, you're not the answer. bitches be cray, my friend.

therefore, friend zone for you.
 
... i hate to say this but maybe their was another guy? ik a girl who did that to my best friend, she was flirting with him non stop but was hooking up with another guy behind his back. girls can be bitches sometimes, i wouldn't ditch completely, just don't make her the priority. hang out with other chicks and maybe you'll find one that's better than her anyway.

do you know anything about her previous relationships? maybe she dated a guy that ended up hurting her, and maybe that relationship started off how you guys did... maybe she thinks it's too good to be true and doesn't want to put herself through that again

 
lol update: i just banged one of her friends and have another date with her monday she still hasnt talked to me so fuck her!! YOLO!!!!! im over her shit
 
Wait til she gets a boyfriend, take his knees out with a tire iron, then chain her in your basement and feed her Baby Ruths. .

Wait, I already replied.
 
how do you have a date with her monday if you still haven't talked to her? oh wait, thats just your terrible grammar. also, i think its pretty clear now why she didn't want to be with you...
 
so thats how it works now? you fuck a girl then take her our on a date? thought it was the opposite.
 
Don't linger

Bitches have always and will always act really fucking dumb

I fucked a bitch a few times in a few days and then shes like

"Uhh i feel like your looking for a GF and i don't want a relationship"

Im like bitch you invited me to dinner, you got me drunk and you sucked my dick, and I am the one looking for a GF...

#woman logic
 
I'd have to disagree with the always wanting boyfriends thing..

1. you're in the friend zone.

2. did you ever consider that you did nothing wrong? what if she just doesn't like you?

3. other fish in the sea, blah blah blah

4. she's a snowboarder?? come onnnnn
 
ehh, not sure about that. I know girls who have been in awful relationships before and are scared to get back into one.
 
So have I, but I'm still not dumb enough to turn down the right guy. I'm sure there are a few girls who truly are loners and don't want a relationship, but if you get that line, pretty much 9 times out of 10 it does just mean she isn't interested in you.
 
thankfully its been told to me as a friend, about another guy. Just saying
 
Didn't even read the thread but ObeseBunny's diagnosis: THE FRIENDZONE. Good luck man, all hope may be lost
 
thats probably the point. like two days after "this perfect connection" OP goes to fuck another chick.

no problem with that, but i love how he basically said that the original girl was his only and perfect chance to be happy for eternity, yet fucks another girl two days later just because the possibility was there.

obviously the first girl doesnt want him, but OP is full of shit
 
Damn, that sucks. If I were you, I'd forget her. I've personally been in this situation before, ofcourse I was the girl, and I felt horrible for doing it. It was honestly the only way to have him stop feeling something for me. She probably feels bad. That would be my guess, but she isn't telling you. If you stop talking to her, and act like you just don't care, she's bound to come back and try to be friends again.
 
So there is deffentally another guy and whatever you felt she never felt the same way cause you didn't make the moves on her. If you know she's texting a lot of guys that's your sign that you need to act fast. Girls attention span is one a few weeks, speaking from experience. Also you probally seemed too needy, we can sense desperation
 
This. Short to the point text messages, always have something else to keep you busy or at least say you do.

Also, maybe after hooking up she didn't think you were much of a stallion sexually.
 
You can't make every girl in the world want to have sex with you, but you can make them have sex with you. hope that helps
 
Good job son, Nothing gets you out of the friend zone faster that hooking up with a friend of hers. The facts are out as to why she originally didn't want the relationship but Jealously is the real deal. Its all about supply and demand boys and girls.
 
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