Member for one day, already quad posts in which you call skiing gay. Not off to a good start.
You should probably read this.
https://www.newschoolers.com/ns/forums/readthread/thread_id/570376/
and this
https://www.newschoolers.com/ns/forums/readthread/thread_id/340690/
And when you made your profile, you had the option of picking a bluename, and that option is a very clear one. Girls with bluenames get so much less drama. remember this is #1 the internet, and #2 skiing. Its like guys on guys on guys.