im not saying this was what happened at all, and i feel absolutely terrible for rape victims. however, after partying in tremblant over the march break, and seeing some of my female friends make out with 20 or 30 guys over a week, i can see how a guy can take the message the wrong way and just go for it. i honestly was not gonna be suprised if my friend (who made out with 34 guys at a club over a week) got raped or taken advantage of, because it is her own fault for being to forward, and quite frankly, too slutty.
what im getting at, is that not all the time is the woman the 'victim'...for all we know the women in scenarios like this could have came up with the idea of having sex, then turned around after it was all over, felt ashamed, and blame the dude for rape. so basically, the women in situations like this can totally bring it upon themselves, and it wouldnt suprise me.
having said that, i feel awful for your friend...my prayers are with anybody stuck in that situation.
Joel
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