Question for women concerning past sex partners

to be honest if you haven't had sex with at least 5 women, (min. of 1 for multiple times) then you are probably not worth getting involved with through the eyes of 90% of attractive women. they value experience most of all
 
did your gf ask or something?

really though, the past is the past and i feel it's no ones business.
 
I sort of agree... Unless the number is ridiculous. I'd want to know if I was about to start a relationship with a girl and she was at like 50+... I know a few of those and it's shockingly hard to tell how ratchet they are on the surface
 
There's no right answer --

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I mean it really all depends on the kind of people you are, but if you are 18-25 and you have had 50+ penises in you, you have probably never held a steady relationship or shown faith to anyone
 
I barely made it to the top 50 of one girl, the top 20 of another, and finally the last girl i was with i was in the top 5!

none really cared about my number
 
Not everyone is like you...I'm 21, have had 1 six month relationship and am in an 8 month relationship now and have fucked a bit over 50 girls...My Girlfriend is 24, she has had a 4 year relationship (first bf) and a 2 year relationship, then me, and she is at almost 100...
 
It's all personal preference.. But to me I wouldn't want to date a girl who's had 100+ cocks in her. Makes sex seem less intimate when you do it. But then again, I've never been with a girl at 100+ so I can't truly speak on the matter.

I got head from a girl who had fucked 70+ and it felt good, but it looked like second nature for her. Never fucked her cause she wasn't clean and if we did I think it would have looked like second nature there too...
 
i read "Question for women concerning past sex panthers"

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"it's made with bits of real panther, so you know it's good."
 
if the rate of the population is 5%, then wouldn't you only have a 5% chance of contracting an STI every time you had a unique partner?

you would have a 95% chance of not contracting one. Assuming every single new parter is randomly selected and unique, it would be 5% every single time would it not? Because really the population size is so gigantic and for the sake of what we're arguing the sample size isn't going to really get "smaller" so compounding the percent doesn't seem to make sense here. But then again I'm in accounting, not statistics so please correct me, i'm just interested in the math. because i'm a numbers nerd.
 
Whatever works dude... I mean I'm 19 and I've had sex with 12 girls and even at that number some chicks give me shit if I tell them the truth. But if you and your girl are happy together then who cares I guess

One thing though. If she's 24, and she was in faithful relationships for 6 years... Unless she started having sex at like 13 I don't get how she could be at 100. Unless in the periods between relationships she was fucking a different guy pretty much every day. Just personal preference but that's pretty unattractive to me
 
Yeah but guys always lie and give a higher number whereas girls give a lower one. If your girl says she fucked 100 dudes, it's really more like 150+, not to mention the ones she just sucked off- or the ones she can't remember/lost count of.

Shit, that's a new dick every day for 5 months. Is she in a wheelchair now by chance?

 
Exactly. There used to be a certain level of insecurity - how am I going to compare with the 100 previous girls? Obviously some would be more experienced, some would be kinkier, some would be more flexible, some would be hotter so I felt like I couldn't offer anything special myself. But pretty quick I realized that you aren't thinking about much beyond your current partner when you're fucking and if the person cares about you you suddenly jump to the 'best sex I've had category'.
 
I mean how many is too many. Can you get to a certain # where it's just not acceptable so there is no point in telling the truth?
 
The last girl I dated was a bit of a whore and would always ask me but I never wanted to tell. I've never gave that info up to any chick. She told me she was at 28 which was kind of odd because she had basically had 4 relationships running consecutively after she lost her V-card which means the overwhelming majority of those were her being unfaithful. Red-flag #2 (red flag #1 being that she was in "an off an on relationship when we met and first hooked up". I told her I was at 60 which was a lie and she was totally cool with it, In fact in even turned her on a bit. Anyways; even though I have a high # I have been in a 4 year relationship and an 8 month relationship and was completely faithful both times. When I'm not in a committed relationship I tend to sleep around a bit.
 
there really is no right answer, either way they are going to judge you. knowing the number of how many people your partner has slept with always makes things weird.
 
really? i guess it depends on how secure you feel w/ the relationship.... my partner and i talk about previous experiences all the time....it doesn't bother either of us at all, if anything it gets us in the mood
 
my partner and I are the exact opposite. We have never talked about past partners and we have been together for 3 years and we have both been faithful (as far as I know). It's not that I don't want to know its just that neither of us really cares what the other did in the past
 
If it's too high a number it's honestly a pretty big turn off for me. Even if you don't have any std's it still just isn't very appealing...I don't have an exact cutoff number but I guess if I had to pick one I'd say if you're over like, 35 people or so I'd find it a little gross. That may not be a popular opinion but it is my honest one.

Also I'd rather the guy not be a virgin if we're dating just because if it was a long term, serious relationship I wouldn't want him secretly wondering what sleeping with other girls is like. But I'd take a virgin over someone who's slept with an insane number of girls.
 
7.

always go with 7.

even if youre way over 7, just go with it.

and if she calls you out that its too low just say most of those were multiple year relationships.

trusttttttt.
 
Yep -- past sexual experiences/exes come up in conversation so its not like we're in the dark about the sexual past. There just has never been a reason to put a number on it. We know who we are as people now - so it makes no difference to the future.
 
exactly like we both have talked about past people we have hooked up with or been with we just don't explicitally put numbers on it or explicitally be like ya i fucked that one person i guess.
 
i can definitely see where you guys are coming from but i think it's important to be honest and forthcoming with your partner...if it never comes up sure there's no reason to discuss it but if a relationship goes on long enough somebody is going to bring it up.

would you not tell your partner if you'd been married before because it's in the past?
 
marriage is a little different. Thats a serious emotional commitment while your number is a combination of those and either bad decisions, one night stands, drunk encounters, and other random things.
 
is anyone on this sight saving themselves for marriage? you wanna chime in on this? would you only be with someone who is the same?
 
i don't understand people who save themselves for marriage, what if you marry someone who just absolutely sucks as sex, you're stuck with them.
 
it's not but i feel like sex plays a fairly large roll in any relationship. i mean as long as you're having great sex it's doubtful you're having problems.
 
Ive banged 6 girls in my life. The fifth one i cant even remember her name. Some of them i banged multiple times. I always went the distance when i wore a condom, but i premature every time that i dont wear one. It sucks
 
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