you will get a better bond if you use a propane torch or something else capable of heating the ptex up substantially.
but you can just use a regular lighter and it will work just fine.
light the tip of the ptex candle with the lighter and hold it just above the gash you are trying to fill, try to keep the flame as blue as possible and just keep making passes over the gash dripping ptex in as you go, eventually it will fill up over the gash, then just scrape the exdess off and youre good.