k-rob
Active member
you would rather have a baby than an abortion but you can't expect every woman you have sex with to feel the same way, unless you've talked about it beforehand, and even then, she's allowed to change her mind, same as you. i think, if you found yourself in the situation of an accidental pregnancy, and knew that you or your partner were unfit to be parents (as i have personally experienced), for whatever reason, you'd be happy to have the option of giving the baby up for adoption (something that was not always an option), or, if you weren't a pro-lifer, abortion. being "prepared" to have a baby includes so much more than saying "i want to have a baby," especially after an accidental pregnancy. i use the precautions available to me (i think it's stupid not to, since i don't want and am not in any way fit to have a child) but they don't always work (seriously, that 99% statistic on the condom box has to be a fallacy) and i'm much better prepared to have an abortion than a baby. there are at least two sides to every situation and the law (or lack thereof, in my case) has to accommodate for both. pierre trudeau said the state has no business in my bedroom, and i agree. why any american (the most conservative people on earth) would disagree is strangely ironical.