OP, you got it wrong. I'm certainly not pro-death. I'm pro choice. I am in favor of giving women (and their partners, if they are in the picture) the CHOICE of what they want to do, be it an abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby. I truly believe that is fair and not morally wrong. It does not mean that if I were to accidentally get pregnant that I'd happily skip off to the abortion clinic right away. I only want an abortion to be a legitimate, legal option if I felt it was the best way to go for me personally. Maybe I'd end up having the baby, maybe I wouldn't. I have no idea. I don't think anyone can say for sure what they'd do unless they've actually been forced sit down, think about it, and choose - and then live with their decision. It's pretty damn heavy. Therefore, how can I judge someone for having an abortion (or not) if I don't even know what I would have done in her shoes?
Another thing. I have nothing against people who are pro life. Just as I believe a woman deserves the right to decide whether or not to keep her baby, I think people deserve to have their own opinions on whether or not abortions are morally wrong. Personally, I don't see it as all that unethical, and could be the best way to go in some circumstances for reasons that I don't feel like typing out. I'm sure that's all been pretty covered in this thread already anyway. But if you believe differently, that's fine and I can respect that. Even though I don't agree, I'm not stupid and I can certainly understand the argument that pro lifers make. However, it's when people start jumping down my throat and saying I'm "pro death" or Satan or whatever that I get annoyed.