Post whats on your mind

oh yeah also did a frontflip into water for the first time this year. felt so good. also should not have stood on top of that slippery rail lol.
 
14618060:poonis said:
I'm so down bad for this girl I work with and idk what to do.

Backstory: I met her about a month and a half ago during training for our seasonal job and ever since then we've been hanging out a lot, we've gotten to know each other super well, and our personalities always seem like they're on the same wavelength. We always have a ton of fun together and she's given me some signs that make me think she's also interested, but she got out of long term healthy relationship like two months ago so I've been treading carefully. I haven't made a move on her or asked her out yet because I didn't want to come on too strong and a lot of my friends that I've asked for advice have told me to wait it out, but I think about her all the time and I really want to just tell her how I feel. I just don't know if I should continue to wait and play it cool or not because I don't want to wait too long, but I also don't want to make things awkward between us if I just admit the way I feel about her.
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keep things gray and keep flirting with her, and when the moment feels right tell her how you feel
 
14618065:BigPurpleSkiSuit said:
keep things gray and keep flirting with her, and when the moment feels right tell her how you feel
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out of curiosity, why not tell her the next time the moment feels right? I've been flirting with her a lot and I feel like my cards are already on the table. What good does waiting do
 
14618067:poonis said:
out of curiosity, why not tell her the next time the moment feels right? I've been flirting with her a lot and I feel like my cards are already on the table. What good does waiting do
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if it feels right, just tell her. Truth is none of the advice we have to give will help, you have to make the call yourself.

I will say this though, telling someone how you feel and getting an answer one way or the other is ultimately infinitely better than never telling them at all. If they're into you, you can often just feel it.
 
14618060:poonis said:
I'm so down bad for this girl I work with and idk what to do.

Backstory: I met her about a month and a half ago during training for our seasonal job and ever since then we've been hanging out a lot, we've gotten to know each other super well, and our personalities always seem like they're on the same wavelength. We always have a ton of fun together and she's given me some signs that make me think she's also interested, but she got out of long term healthy relationship like two months ago so I've been treading carefully. I haven't made a move on her or asked her out yet because I didn't want to come on too strong and a lot of my friends that I've asked for advice have told me to wait it out, but I think about her all the time and I really want to just tell her how I feel. I just don't know if I should continue to wait and play it cool or not because I don't want to wait too long, but I also don't want to make things awkward between us if I just admit the way I feel about her.
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just show her this lol
 
14617986:BradFiAusNzCoCa said:
Where in Cal?

I thought you were over Durango??
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Na I changed my mindset on Durango especially as the weather got warm again like halfway thru the sem and I got into biking. Durango is def not a ski town and purg isn’t that good but everything else (climbing hiking rafting biking concerts) so fun and the vibes are always so high. Also I’m gonna be living in town next year too and I had a horrible roommate situation for most of the school year which kinda made me hate being at school so I think it’ll be better now.
 
14618068:BigPurpleSkiSuit said:
if it feels right, just tell her. Truth is none of the advice we have to give will help, you have to make the call yourself.

I will say this though, telling someone how you feel and getting an answer one way or the other is ultimately infinitely better than never telling them at all. If they're into you, you can often just feel it.
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Leo’s right. Only you know if it’s the right move, but also talking about it indefinitely changes your relationship with that person.
 
14618060:poonis said:
I'm so down bad for this girl I work with and idk what to do.

Backstory: I met her about a month and a half ago during training for our seasonal job and ever since then we've been hanging out a lot, we've gotten to know each other super well, and our personalities always seem like they're on the same wavelength. We always have a ton of fun together and she's given me some signs that make me think she's also interested, but she got out of long term healthy relationship like two months ago so I've been treading carefully. I haven't made a move on her or asked her out yet because I didn't want to come on too strong and a lot of my friends that I've asked for advice have told me to wait it out, but I think about her all the time and I really want to just tell her how I feel. I just don't know if I should continue to wait and play it cool or not because I don't want to wait too long, but I also don't want to make things awkward between us if I just admit the way I feel about her.
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Ask our resident playboy [tag=273397]@WoFlowz[/tag]
 
14618084:ModMommy said:
Leo’s right. Only you know if it’s the right move, but also talking about it indefinitely changes your relationship with that person.
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I think you severely misspelled BigPurpleSkiSuit. ??? Where is the relationships thread dawg?
 
14618105:BigPurpleSkiSuit said:
No one will find anything anymore until the bump issues are fixed, [tag=38820]@eheath[/tag] pls help
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Please stop tagging me about tech issues on ns I don't work for NS.
 
14618008:Farmville420 said:
I was just asking if that was normal because it was cloudy for most of the trip lol
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Yeah that's normal. Mid July through October is usually really nice though

I loved my time in SD, but in 2021 the tech workers fled the Bay Area and drove up rents to an absurd level. Add in the taxes, crime, and other issues with living in California and it really didn't make sense to stick around
 
14618164:SlushSeason said:
Yeah that's normal. Mid July through October is usually really nice though

I loved my time in SD, but in 2021 the tech workers fled the Bay Area and drove up rents to an absurd level. Add in the taxes, crime, and other issues with living in California and it really didn't make sense to stick around
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It would be a landslide safest city ive ever lived in so crime isnt a concern at all. But the $3k for a 1 bedroom sucks but I'm kinda getting to a point in my career where that's almost in the budget, need like a decent raise to make it comfortable but I was also looking in little italy.
 
14618172:Farmville420 said:
It would be a landslide safest city ive ever lived in so crime isnt a concern at all. But the $3k for a 1 bedroom sucks but I'm kinda getting to a point in my career where that's almost in the budget, need like a decent raise to make it comfortable but I was also looking in little italy.
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Little Italy is very cool, but it's also an absolute pain to live in. You'll need your own off street parking space and it's impossible to find parking for any friends that visit. Traffic can get pretty gridlocked at times too. Breweries, bars, and restaurants around there are great though and mostly in walking distance.

After a few years in SD i got to the point where I could just about afford to rent my own crappy apartment in North Park. Or I could move to Utah and spend 80% of that on a mortgage for a decent house. I chose the latter and have no ragrets
 
14618060:poonis said:
I'm so down bad for this girl I work with and idk what to do.

Backstory: I met her about a month and a half ago during training for our seasonal job and ever since then we've been hanging out a lot, we've gotten to know each other super well, and our personalities always seem like they're on the same wavelength. We always have a ton of fun together and she's given me some signs that make me think she's also interested, but she got out of long term healthy relationship like two months ago so I've been treading carefully. I haven't made a move on her or asked her out yet because I didn't want to come on too strong and a lot of my friends that I've asked for advice have told me to wait it out, but I think about her all the time and I really want to just tell her how I feel. I just don't know if I should continue to wait and play it cool or not because I don't want to wait too long, but I also don't want to make things awkward between us if I just admit the way I feel about her.
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lmao ur cooked fuckin rebound
 
Be careful brother. Work girls can be tricky. I was into one pretty deep until i found out she was married and it broke my heart. Be careful!

14618060:poonis said:
I'm so down bad for this girl I work with and idk what to do.

Backstory: I met her about a month and a half ago during training for our seasonal job and ever since then we've been hanging out a lot, we've gotten to know each other super well, and our personalities always seem like they're on the same wavelength. We always have a ton of fun together and she's given me some signs that make me think she's also interested, but she got out of long term healthy relationship like two months ago so I've been treading carefully. I haven't made a move on her or asked her out yet because I didn't want to come on too strong and a lot of my friends that I've asked for advice have told me to wait it out, but I think about her all the time and I really want to just tell her how I feel. I just don't know if I should continue to wait and play it cool or not because I don't want to wait too long, but I also don't want to make things awkward between us if I just admit the way I feel about her.
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Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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ask to see papers on the conservatorship lol. that shit is extremely rare and if real massive red flag. if fabricated also a pretty big red flag. i know you were excited to have someone but this sounds like a handful and getting out now is probably in your best interest
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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she sounds like a mess
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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Dawg just dont meet girls on dating apps bro fr fr
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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Yeah dude, this chick is not in any position to be trying to develop a relationship right now...
 
Lmao what a story

honestly sounds like she might be the victim of abuse and is covering it up with the conservatorship excuse

14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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Jay Z in the Gladiator 2 trailer is a funny as fuck choice.

Hyped to see what Denzel's character gets up to, and before it gets mentioned I don't give a fuck if he's not using a "Roman accent", there's no such thing
 
14618256:maaattt said:
Jay Z in the Gladiator 2 trailer is a funny as fuck choice.

Hyped to see what Denzel's character gets up to, and before it gets mentioned I don't give a fuck if he's not using a "Roman accent", there's no such thing
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Fr makes me sad they didn't bring Zimmer back. That's one of his best scores
 
14618257:profa_212 said:
Fr makes me sad they didn't bring Zimmer back. That's one of his best scores
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I'd imagine Jay Z was just for the trailer and the movie will have a traditional epic score, but ya know I could be surprised too
 
14618258:maaattt said:
I'd imagine Jay Z was just for the trailer and the movie will have a traditional epic score, but ya know I could be surprised too
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That is what it is at least! But they are using Harry Gregson-Williams instead of Zimmer

Gregson williams has some good movies under his belt, but not much beats Zimmer
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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I like how there’s just red flags exploding out of crazy grenades at every turn and you just didn’t think much of it.
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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I like how you are using that autistic green text format :D
 
14617991:VTshredder69 said:
Lol. Why can't they just make weed like how it was when i smoked it in highschool. 10% of THC is pleasant. 30% THC feels like my life is ending. I can't do it anymore.
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I don’t smoke much but when I do I buy mid pack I’m trying to watch Star Wars not have a panic attack
 
14618011:Farmville420 said:
I mean, CT only got 82, so I guess we got u beat by a month but still pales in comparison to fuckin colorados 300
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330 in Calgary :^) most of those days are below freezing though
 
14618256:maaattt said:
Jay Z in the Gladiator 2 trailer is a funny as fuck choice.

Hyped to see what Denzel's character gets up to, and before it gets mentioned I don't give a fuck if he's not using a "Roman accent", there's no such thing
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Denzel the GOAT.
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl

>she lives in Denver but comes up here pretty regularly

>agree to meet for drinks and stuff at her place

>things going well

>date ends abruptly to "work related" stuff

>don't think much of it, agree to meet her for coffee as a raincheck the next day before work

>Fast forward a week, make more plans to hangout..

>she sends a long text explaining her current situation, how she just got out of a 13 year relationship with her ex she had plans to marry and help raise his kids, and she's sorry for being evasive and her lack of dating experience but would like to see where it goes

>also tells me about her TBI she suffered one year ago, and how her family put her into a conservatorship, and how her family is in a massive dispute with each other over her grandparents assets being given to her in their will

>don't think much of it, agree to keep seeing her cuz she seemed genuinely cool.

>2nd date happens, things going well until date is abruptly ended for a 2nd time.

>text her about it that following night. Explain to her that it probably is best if we don't chat for a while or not continue this thing if things like this keep coming up. She gets upset, etc.

>Texts me again the following morning that she's really sorry, didn't mean to make me upset, and that us not talking and seeing each other is a thought that she'd hate a lot.

>Agree on hanging out again on Sunday.

>Hanging out, watching movies, cuddling, making out, etc.

>Date ends abruptly again by her cousin demanding her to drive back down to denver.

>Texts me later that she can't be able to have drinks or do drugs or do anything destructive during her recovery which is understandable, and that her conservatorship is preventing her from being able to date, and that she's sorry for leading me on.

I still can't wrap my head around it and I feel bad.
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Your next course of action should be getting her pregnant.
 
14618225:GayWolf420 said:
Help me make sense of this situation I was just in.

>Be me

>match with girl
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are you sure she just didn't find out you write like 4chan folks and is trying to scare you off? for real tho that's rough man, sounds like a real mess regardless of what's really going on, might wanna move on before you're in deep
 
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