Party

Jake...

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My neighbor, who is my age, goes to my school, that i have known for 11 years is having a party tomorrow night. Nothing huge but something more then a get together. Were seniors and since he doesn't want it to get out of hand he has a list of people that are going, and im not there? I don't get it either, we've gone to parties together, we hang out, or parents work together ... and its not that im just automatically there that im not on the list. So i don't get it.. i tried the "joking" method of bringing it up in conversation and he shot it down immediately. I'm not a begger so i'm not going to ask to go, so i don't know what to do. any ideas on any of this
 
Ya I don't know whats up with that. The list is 25 people to so you would think he would want you there. But I'm also thinking he wants to have a lot of chicks there considering he's single. So thats probobly it. But James over you ? :s
 
were friends. its not like hes just the guy living beside me.

but who knows. i guess he just doesn't want me there.
 
maybe he wants to get with a girl and its some situation where you cant be there for it? i dunno probably something to do with females.
 
dude just fucking go there, its right next door, id go in a heart beat even if i wasnt on the list i mean fuck walk home? thatd be nice.
 
Throw a party at your house the same night that's way more crackin and steal all his guests.

Naw dude, it's clear that he doesn't want you there cuz he knows that you will mack so hard and get all the ladies that there won't be any left for him. You should actually take it as a complement.

It'd be pretty fuckin funny to call the cops on his to! When the come put up a big flashing sign in your window that says "Fuckin PWNED n00bzoor"

Yeah so that pretty much my take on the whole situation. Hope that helps!
 
are you sure he just hasn't automatically assumed that you are going to be there? like he didn't even bother putting you on the list?

what did he say when you joked about it?
 
umm... the solution to this is plain as day

just tell everyone you know about it and say there will be keg races at a specific time so everyone shows up at the same time. if he lets no one in, they will be pissed and everyone will either crash it or fuck some shit up. you get in or you win.
 
would anyone reasonable really expect their friend that lives next door to sit at their house while they have a party? Either your friend is an asshole or you are delusional.
 
If hes that good of a friend like you say then why would it be a big deal to bring it up to him? Situations like this let you know who your real friends are...
 
man i wasnt invited to a good freind of mines birthday.

mainly because my ex girlfreind who isnt even that good of freinds with him found out about it first and got invited first then said she didnt want me there...but still...im going. haha
 
will there be drinking??? ya could always call the cops...that would be really mean and probably get you deleted from his phonebook. but hey you could call them for being loud or some shit. just show up and be like hey! heard you were havin a party, thought id drop by. or have your own, better party.
 
Have a party on the EXACT same night and have a sign in the front yard saying 'free beer'
 
Ya I'm sure that'd be a wonderful plan except for the part where he had to provide free beer to everybody who saw the sign.
 
my birthday is in september. i had a talk with him, he said he was only aloud 25 people and no one else, and apparently he has 25 better friends then me, so shits going to get real aquward. I told him i would have a sick time sitting in my room and watching the party from my window, and all he said was i feel like a dick man.

 
If a so called "friend" of mine did that to me, I dont know if i'd really even bother talking to them anymore.
 
wtf....I'm checking my mail right now, and I've got an invite.

I've never even been to Whitby Ontario, so you can have my invite
 
or alot of males (he may be gay and secretly watching you right now and the only reason you were friends was so he could put tiny perv cams in your room, in your bathroom)
 
karma dude. my best advice would be to just not care, be the bigger person. he doesnt sound like a really good friend anyways, with the whole "i feel like a dick dude", because if he actually felt like a dick, he would probably invite you. whatever, its only a party, you are at college next year, so just think about that. thats all i got.
 
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