Yeah, I'm bummed.  Haven't seen him on here in a long time.  Grandparenting keeping him busy?  Doh!  ... but seriously, having your son get into trouble is tough enough as a parent; having the whole sordid mess chronicled on a forum site is brutal.  I know he's got an awesome sense of humor, but that could definitely be a big factor as to why he hasn't been on.  Papasteeze you are a stud and Nipples sounds like a great guy too.  My kids are only 7 and 6 not but it's just a matter of time before I will be needing your advice.  Get your ass back on NS!  Please!