I just got word that one of my good friend's Mother was killed in an auto accident this morning. I haven't talked to him yet. I don't know that it would even be appropriate to call him this soon. Wow I don't even know what to think.
oh ya, and the funeral was like 4 days after, and about 50 people were at his house. i dont know if he actually wanted it, but he handeled it pretty well.
call him and tell him that you are thinking of him and are sorry and ask if there is anything to do. he probably won't answer so you will leave a message which would be easier. my mom died this year and it sucks to have everyone calling you to ask how you are doing and i just quit answering my phone but he will get the message