As a female, I was ALWAYS getting shit-talked in online games because people thought I was a little boy. My Xbox has been packed away for 3.5 years now. I played Reach a handfull of times on my ex's console, and I HATED it! Might have to bust out the ole' Xbox again, though, for Halo 4... If the thing still works. I kind of miss playing, but Halo 3 consumed my life for like two years, haha.
What are your gamertags? My old one was "Sdot Wins", but I made an "Alaska Toyota" one, which I'll probably use for 4.