Don't be too worried by their sarcasm, its all joking sarcasm for the most part. Don't leave, I like you. I like Spagett and honestly I like almost every member on here who I have interacted with. I get the struggle though with pushing through NS as a woman.
I work as a worm digger in Maine to help supplement my income, the most recent comment directed at me from other worm diggers was "Didnt think they would buy worms from brown folk like you" I have also heard "Let people from here dig worms, you arent needed"
I know shits not always fun, but take it with a grain of salt, there are indeed advantages to being a woman, and there are indeed benefits to being brown, sometimes people cant handle it. I do honestly believe however that everyone in this thread is joking in their words and do not mean what they are saying, just posting on NS uselessly for the most part just like myself and the rest of the community.