NS, I need you to be my Dr. Phil...
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the_moderaper
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Girl 1: Teaching a girl to ski is always hard but it sounds like it could go through with this girl. She seems like the type of girl to be with.
Girl 2: Just because shes a skiier doesn't mean she's the one. If she's a park skiier, I think I'd take her.
My experiences with skiing with girls goes like this. If they ride trails only and really don't find the park fun, you're going to end up riding trails half the day and not enjoying yourself as much. If she rides park, it doesn't matter how good she is. She just has to be completely cool with you being with your dude friends and her at the same time and understand that you won't be focusing on her, but on doing what you love on your snow sticks. She has to be skiing for fun, not to ride just because you are with her, just as you should be skiing for fun, with her there as an extra. Not sure if I really put what I'm trying to convey into words legibly...
The last girl I rode with was a complete catch until we rode together for the first time. She didn't want to ride park and when we were in the park, she wouldn't communicate with my friends in the least, not even come within 20 feet of them and would absolutely not try a new trick no matter how easy. Haven't talked to her since.
Girl 2: Just because shes a skiier doesn't mean she's the one. If she's a park skiier, I think I'd take her.
My experiences with skiing with girls goes like this. If they ride trails only and really don't find the park fun, you're going to end up riding trails half the day and not enjoying yourself as much. If she rides park, it doesn't matter how good she is. She just has to be completely cool with you being with your dude friends and her at the same time and understand that you won't be focusing on her, but on doing what you love on your snow sticks. She has to be skiing for fun, not to ride just because you are with her, just as you should be skiing for fun, with her there as an extra. Not sure if I really put what I'm trying to convey into words legibly...
The last girl I rode with was a complete catch until we rode together for the first time. She didn't want to ride park and when we were in the park, she wouldn't communicate with my friends in the least, not even come within 20 feet of them and would absolutely not try a new trick no matter how easy. Haven't talked to her since.
Davy.Crockett
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Dr_Feelgood
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yeah its definitely a situation where i like both of them. A LOT. which is why it sucks. wish i could have them both, but we all know how it works when you try to make that work: you lose them both in the long run. like, i could see myself with either of these girls in several years, both are awesome. im just gonna hope for her sake that girl #1 isnt shallow and can accept the fact that our relationship wasnt going anywhere at the time, and it was pretty difficult to wait 5 months for something that was unpredictable and wasnt going anywhere..
Dr_Feelgood
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and thanks for all your input guys and gals, whatever it may have been. feels good to get this out of my head, seeing as the only other people that know are my siblings, and now all of you. NS FTW
mummitrollet
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pretty much this...
little1337
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sry
Dr_Feelgood
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just a little update for you guys, know you're all on the edge of your seats...
so, the new semester has come around, and so has this situation. it worked out pretty much exactly as i had hoped.i couldnt bring myself to tell girl #1 about #2 over new years because we had such a sick time and i didnt want to, and pretty much couldnt ruin the time that we had. so, start of the semester i took #2 out a few times, and then realized that she is deep into her sorority bullshit and i wouldnt be able to go out with her for at least another 2 weeks. so, given this opportunity i hit up girl #1, and we re-hit it off last weekend. holy fuck we hit it off.we partied, danced, played pong, and of course, did the deed 3 straight nights... and most importantly, her true feelings toward me finally came out.
so me and #1 are FINALLY happily together, and i told #2 about the situation with me and #1. i also explained to her that with her sorority status it would be impossible for me to carry on a steady relationship with her, no matter how much i liked her. she completely understood and we are now degraded to good friends, which was the best possible scenario. cant believe how sticky a situation i was in not too long ago, im glad everything worked out as i had hoped. thanks guys and gals for all your input, and most of all, thanks for listening!
now, time to shred up some east coast hills, peace.
so, the new semester has come around, and so has this situation. it worked out pretty much exactly as i had hoped.i couldnt bring myself to tell girl #1 about #2 over new years because we had such a sick time and i didnt want to, and pretty much couldnt ruin the time that we had. so, start of the semester i took #2 out a few times, and then realized that she is deep into her sorority bullshit and i wouldnt be able to go out with her for at least another 2 weeks. so, given this opportunity i hit up girl #1, and we re-hit it off last weekend. holy fuck we hit it off.we partied, danced, played pong, and of course, did the deed 3 straight nights... and most importantly, her true feelings toward me finally came out.
so me and #1 are FINALLY happily together, and i told #2 about the situation with me and #1. i also explained to her that with her sorority status it would be impossible for me to carry on a steady relationship with her, no matter how much i liked her. she completely understood and we are now degraded to good friends, which was the best possible scenario. cant believe how sticky a situation i was in not too long ago, im glad everything worked out as i had hoped. thanks guys and gals for all your input, and most of all, thanks for listening!
now, time to shred up some east coast hills, peace.
