NS, I need you to be my Dr. Phil...

Dr_Feelgood

Dr_Feelgood

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the situation: sticky as fuck

so yeah, got me a little issue with women that i could dearly use some advice with. girl #1 i met my first semester at school and was the first girl i hooked up with out there too. shes probably the coolest girl ive ever met in my life. like, shes always down for whatever, and shes hot as fuck. shes a legit model. im also teaching her how to ski and golf, and improving beer pong skills. she is one of my best friends but we never actually got into the relationship zone because we were freshman that wanted the full college experience, per say. but she wasnt here last semester because she was studying abroad in italy, and now shes coming back and were meeting up for new years. lately shes been talking to me non stop, and now im sorta getting the vibe like her true feelings for me are finally going to come out... hence where girl #2 comes in.

met girl #2 a few weeks before the end of this semester. woke up at midnight after i blacked out from drinking earlier that day and she was in my house with one of my chick friends. shes also pretty hot, but not as hot as girl #1, and we pretty much hit it off that night. played pong, got wasted, danced and hooked up. shes a skier and is as sarcastic as me, which for some reason makes her wayyy more attractive to me. so i, not aware of girl #1's feelings, start talking to her and we start dating. and now she wants me to go up to vermont to ski with her before i go out west to ski with my buddy, and if i do so it pretty much seals the deal for a relationship.

so NS, what the fuck should i do about this? any mature advise is appreciated, this situation is fucking with my head and im def not a fan

 
Jeeeez this sounds like a rough situation. If #2 is a good skier, you might have more fun with her. Give #2 a whirl, and if it doesn't work out, #1 will be there to come back to. It's not your fault #1 wasn't there all along... you can't wait up for her forever.
 
Sooo, your order in life should be as so

1. Skiing

2. Women.

That being said, with #2 you get to go on a ski trip WITH possible alpine sexual encounters hehehe. Just go with #2, if it doesnt work out with #2 you can go and be all sweet and sensitive with #1 and say "I thought I liked her (#2), but I realized that you were the only one for me." BOOM You get laid that night and have another relationship. Also, Pics or it didn't happen. Will also help my verdict to see if #2 is worth it.
 
if you want to lose girl #1 forever than go with #2 because girl #1 isn't going to want to be just friends and we all know how that doesn't work out. I'd give #1 a try and if the connection is lost then you know your not missing out on what could of been a great opporitunity
 
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girl #1, and yeah that doofy bastard is me

 
#2 for sure. you have a way better chance with her. the first girl sounds kind of iffy. also number one will be around later for sure. She can't expect you to be waiting around like that for her...
 
ya theres not much of a difference. number 2 can ski, its a no brainer. number 1 will probably still be there later
 
haha yeah i guess they sort of do.. and this is all good shit guys thanks a lot. i definitely have a better chance with #2 but i feel like i would be wayyyy happier with #1 jus because were insanely good friends. but i guess thats just because i met #2 like 4 weeks ago
 
and i guess another question to ask, would it be immoral for me to out and get with girl #1 for new years with an open, but developing thing with #2?
 
Well obviously it's a really douchey thing to do. But so is choosing a girl because you think you have a better chance with her so I wouldn't worry about it.
 
All of the reply's in here are just about who's hotter after the first few legit responses.

First of all, they do look a lot alike. That being said... listen to your heart and not your dick and pick the one you're more compatible with. Sorry to say, but if you just pick who's hotter it's not going to work out in the long run and you're going to lose both of them.
 
IMO girl 1.. it sounds like you get along with her so much better than girl 2, just by how you explained it...

my advise:

try turning the relationship with #2 into more of a friendship. and maintain that friendship until things go wrong with girl number 1. when they do go wrong, begin turning it back into a relationship. that way, you can get both of them.

 
im so proud of you guys no one said pee in her butt...but which ever one you can actualy talk to and shes not the one talking the entire time also where r u guys going to be in a few years??? also what are they intrested in does it reflect you???
 
Wow YEAH totally! Fag. How old are you, 13? He's looking for legitimate advice and clearly he's MATURE enough for a real relationship.

IMO, he sounds more stoked about 1 because he thinks she's hotter. He hit it off better with #2 personality wise. Also, #2 can ski. That's a win.
 
im thinkin number 2. shes cute and she skis. the other one will wait around for you too i think.
first post is really good advice. +k for that. and that got even better when pics were posted.
 
also known her for wayyyy longer... and i havent skied with #2 yet, but it doesnt really matter how good she is, just stoked that she gets out there.
 
I've already said this... but you guys must be blind... The girls don't look the same at all. Maybe it's just because you are guys. Look at their noses. And they have completely different colored eyes! Just because they both have dark brown hair, does not mean they are twins. As for what to do, I'd still listen to what I said in the first post haha.
 
haha yeah, or theyre all just 12, no disrespect. but you can definitely tell the age of the person by their comment. and you gave some great advice. i mean, me and #1 are like best friends, and i dont think she would be that shallow just to kick me to the curb. pretty sure she'll understand. im gonna tell her whats up when we meet up for new years
 
this is a tough situation man, and im sorry i cant help, this is definitely something you gotta do on your own. They both seem like great girls and from the pictures theyre both hot so i think you'll be fine whichever one you end up with. good luck bro hope it all works out
 
#1 likes u but has given you lots of time... so she can wait a lil longer i guess and give girl 2 a whirl, see what you rly think about her.

and girl 2 is a skier... so go with her.

girl 1 looks like a really good best friend, so she could probs stay with u as a friend through girl 2 and if htt doenst work back to #1

fuck, i duno ahha, go with girl 2 for now ahha.

oh and next post is multi pager... or this one might. f
 
pick the one that you have the most fun with... pick the one you feel most comfortable with and can joke around with. Number 1 is prettier... but they are both pretty. number two skis.... that's a plus. but if number 1 is willing then that's also a plus... i feel like if you are asking NS then either you really like both of these girls... or you dont like either of them. because if you really liked one then you would probably already know. go with your gut
 
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