14517508:Dustin. said:
I have a very high stress job, but I spend a decent amount of time taking care of myself physically and mentally to prepare for the peak stress portions. That in itself is a big part of the work, so I can understand where you are coming from. It is not for everyone and you can't really chill out on the job. I like my work because of the community and the challenge, but I have a plan to go part time and reduce the time spent doing this as I get older. My body literally cannot do this past about the age of 45, and that will make the mental stress unmanageable.
That said, and please hear me out as I'm just trying to help frame this correctly, but you do not have a "high paying" job. Considering the stress level you endure and the availability of work today, you have a fairly low paying job. High stress jobs mean you are recovering significantly during off time, and you do not get paid for that. For reference, my wife works remotely as an Executive Assistant (about ~30 hours/week) and makes more than you from the kitchen table. She found this job by chance as something interesting to do while our son was a baby and now she does it as her only job because she happens to like it a lot. It has nothing to do with her background on paper, but she's skiing with her team in Tahoe right now for a "work trip" and plays with our kids every day. She loves to work with people, so she thrives being the companies go-to person to help with random problems that come up day to day. Everyone knows her and she loves knowing them. There are a LOT of jobs out there right now, and if you are willing to work as hard as you do as a paramedic then you can likely make more money for less stress and possibly less time.
Don't wall off any options and don't be afraid to try some new jobs. First find something that pays well to keep the lights on and keep searching while you do that and gain new insight. You might be surprised by what you do and don't enjoy, and maybe one of those "temporary" jobs will become something you really enjoy.