the glowstick idea was fucking great. please do that.
neon prom theme? thats retarted. only a select few show up to prom in neon, and that makes them special and being that select few. having a theme of neon will just make everyone show up in neon. you should do all black. but the glowsticks would be fucking awesome. just attach both the tops and bottoms. no1 should seriously try to rip em off. if you want, just do a white jacket/pants, and the glowsticks underneath, cuz you barely wear the jacket anyway.