I know its all personal preferance, but in my opinion the ar6 is not soft as I am only 120 lbs and find them of having a medium flex. Once you break the ar6s in after a couple weeks you can butter on them just like you could on invaders. Plus ar6s have a wood core with tons of camber and pop, which is one of the most important factors imo. Lastly, if you are hitting bigger features, icier features as well get the ar6 its stiff enough so you can land on a reliable ski and not wash out on a big landing. The dumonts would be a close close second as they are sick but honestly the ar6 is the way to go.