Need help telling my good friend something

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So last night I was at a fire with my good friend and a few people. Everyone was drunk and it was a chill time, the only bad part about it was his ex girlfriend was there. They have been broken up for sometime but they still have feelings for each other, they wont admit to it but its pretty obvious. So we were getting ready to go to bed and set up a tent. His ex girlfriend was in the tent next to us with some kid that I am pretty good friends with but he can be a douch sometimes (this kid is in a relationship.) Someone tells me to go into his ex's tent for some reason which I cannot recall but anyway, I walk in to the tent and my best friends ex is giving this other guy dome. I have no idea what to do, should I tell my friend or should I not. If I tell my best friend his ex was giving some guy head the word would spread like a wild fire and the kid who was getting dome would get dumped right off the bat. But if I don't tell my friend I have to live with the guilt of not telling him for the rest of my life. Fellow NS'rs, what would you do?

Spark notes: My best friends ex was giving another guy head and I walked in on it. What do I do?

To the people that know me in real life I will kill you if you tell anyone.
 
tell your bestie, if the guy getting dome wasn't your friend then its nothing to worry about.
 
Be a god friend and tell him. Even though it might hurt him, he'll respect you for it. And that other guy deserves to get dumped.
 
I'd say let the girlfriend of the douche know he was getting head from some girl!
 
why the fuck wouldnt u tell him. its not your fault if it spreads and the kid getting head, gets dumped. shit happens. you look out for your best friend by being loyal. just imagine him finding out and you not telling him first. then he will get pissed and it will turn chaotic for you.
 
I forgot to mention that his ex is a psycho bitch, he also lost his virginity to this girl so she is kind of important to him...
 
tell your friend..it might hurt him but be a good friend. he doesnt want a bitch like that. fuck girls, sometimes.
 
tell him man i had a similar situation n i didnt tell him for a while n when i did we was just mad i didnt tell him sooner (they were going out at the time n she cheated on him)
 
Sorry to be a buzzkill here, but she's your friend's ex, she can do whatever the fuck she wants. The other guy is a dirtbag for letting some chick suck his dick while he's in a relationship, but that has nothing to do with your other friend, and you have no reason to tell him except to hurt him, and hatch your real plan of spreading the word like wildfire.
 
The thing is, im not the only person who knows. Im debating if I should tell him before he hears it from someone else...
 
the important part of what you said is "ex" if they arent in a relationship and you arent in the age bracket of 12-14 the fact that they are no longer in a relationship means that she can do whatever she wants because she is her own person. if you are in the aforementioned age bracket, nothing I can say will make any difference because you are a tiny person that has no common sense. (but seriously, if you are that age, drama will happen over absolutely nothing and you cant stop it. just live with it and laugh at what you thought was important as you grow older)
 
tell him with a nice bottle of bourbon. or failing that a bottle of evan williams. Its all relative if your fourteen and it is easier to climb the nearest fourteener carrying a paraplegic asain than to get a bottle of liquor well then i think 2 cans of coors that you nicked from your dad would suffice.
 
stories like this make my stomach turn
I couldnt imagine being the best friend being informed, but you have to tell him, if it were me I would definitely want to know.
 
Agreed. Why does everyone think he should tell him? They aren't dating; the girl can blow the whole party if she wants to and he has no right to be mad about it. If they were still dating then I'd say you need to tell him, but since they aren't, it really doesn't matter. You'd be hurting your friend for no reason, and while the other guy's cheating is shitty, it's not your business.

I saw don't get involved.
 
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