Need girl advice quick

CKpolicy

CKpolicy

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so last night my girlfriend of almost 3 yrs and i decided to take a break, i wasnt really all for the idea but she said she needed it and there wasnt much else i could do about it without being a total asshole. so now she wants to meet me for lunch this afternoon, and i dont know what to do/expect, i already agreed to meet her any advice? i know this shoould be in ladies men but im not a member and dont have alot of time please help me
 
dont go, she's probly gonna try to break up with you, thats why she wants to go to a formal place where you cant make a seen, just go ski or go hang with your friends or something
 
well you have to go. if she's going to break up well then that really sucks but you need to go and realize that she isnt happy and it needs to end. yeah go and dont be nervous or anxious. just be cool and happy to see her. or just fricken propose. lol just kidding.
 
Yeah dude, fuck that. Say you're busy but you'd be happy to hang out with her in a park / at your house / at her house / anywhere that she can't break up with you comfortably on her terms... although if she's gonna do it I'm not sure how long you'll be able to avoid it.
 
Well get in ladies men fast dude, we'll help you out in there.

But I think that if she breaks up with you you should tell her you want to go talk about it at a different place and she had better respect that and shit, after 3 years I think ending it in a cafe or whatever and then not even talking about it would be fucked up. If she does break up, not at all saying she will just might as well be prepared right, I would just tell her you wanna talk about it at a different place, if she says no, just walk out and give her a guilt trip or something, then just NEXT her probably, depending on how good of friends you were before you started dating. How old are you too? That would help to know.
 
pee in her butt

or not you could break up with her first to keep up your street cred relationships are gay anywho
 
If I d be you i would go to the lunch thinger, because IF she would wanna break up she would do it either way, but maybe she just regretts her stupid idea of being on a break ?? In my opinion breaks are just making it worse
 
ya so her break lasted a total of 24 hrs, she realized she couldnt handle it i guess and now shit is back to normal...i guess. she just doesnt want to fight over the past anymore, which is an agreeable condition
 
Holy thats like the happiest shit ive ever read on the internet bro thats good for you hope she doesnt try to do anything like that again
 
so many things you say should be nominated for golden wheel chair.

why wouldnt he go if shes gonna break up with him? shes not a mail order wife, and believe it or not, women have a say in things too.

so, maybe you shouldnt give him shitty advice like go ski and maybe some good advice: go and tell her how you feel and listen to what she has to say. if she wants out and you dont, you will both be happier apart then if only one of you is feelin it.
 
She is 99% going to break up with you. Take it like a man and move on buddy. There's plenty of ladies out there. Yeah 3 years is a long time and gettin over her isnt gonna be a walk in the park but just hang out with your close friends, ski as much as possible, and smoking weed has always helped me with shitty situations and from gettin depressed, so if you're into that then go for it.

 
wow. you guys are real helpful. why the fuck would he want to avoid going so that she cant break up with him? if she wants to break up that's that, it's not like ignoring her will make you boyfriend/girlfriend again. that's seriously some of the worst advice I've ever heard. and if you've been going out with this girl for like 2 years or whatever you said why is going to lunch such a big deal that you are tweakin out? kids these days... geez
 
Dude thats good!
breaks are the scariest thing in the world if your really like her a lot. I think they can make things worse.
Hope all goes well dude!
now time to get back to skiing :)
 
I believe the point was to not go to the lunch so that if she was gonna break up with him she would have to do it somewhere they could talk about it and not have a waiter trying to shuffle them out of the place and send them on their way. Restaurants aren't the best places to handle a breakup, although it happens all the time.
 
damn, ur lucky dude. when my ex said she "wanted a break" it was code for she was breaking up with me. wish she had just told me straight up, would've made things a lot less complicated. Glad to hear you had a better situation.
 
[to the noobs]

Read shit before you post. Half of the posts after he said THEY DIDN'T BREAK UP have been giving advice on a subject that doesn't need it anymore. 99% chance shes breaking up with him, eh?

Man you're a genius.

 
Hey not to worry you have to take advantage of this situation. The formula is simple: The longer you are in a relationship, the more other girls want you. You have 3 years under your belt so take the break up hit, get drunk at a party and tell all the girls how crushed you are about it. Have fun, get laid, then put your used condom in a manilla folder and mail it to your ex with a fuck you note.
 
perfect example of an NS idiot, they didn't break up and that's one of the worst ideas in this thread other than peeing in her butt, which is at least funny!
 
say you go to lunch with her

her: im sorry i dont think we should be together anymore blah blah blah.

you: (make sure lots of people are around) I CANT FUCKING BELIEVE THIS!!! WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME YOUR A LESBIAN??
 
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