My relationship...
- Thread starter k2_kodi
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^ you're retarded. if you don;t have the love for skiing- then really you're on the wrong site here! shes not saying she is gonna be a ski bum forever- but that she knows skiing is an important part of her life and she wants that to continue through whatever relationship she may have. Her fiancee does not seem to see the logic in this (as it appears you do not either) and really the only response to that is... to bad. if you don;t feel the stoke of skiing then you're missing out on something truly incredible.
so don;t call her immature for wanting to hold on to that, or any of us for supporting that idea.
so don;t call her immature for wanting to hold on to that, or any of us for supporting that idea.
back_woods
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dudette, if your fiancee cant handle you going skiing for a while, then he shouldnt be your fiancee. Suggest renting his home built house out and living other palces for a while. If this sort of barrier is going to fuck up you engagement, then its probably a good idea not to get married.
dweezileast
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in actuality, he's not retarded. he has had more experience on this topic than you, i can guarantee it. skiing was/ is an important part of his life, but he has also seen the real world, and moved on
i'm no 12 yr old newb here. so as much as his personal relations may be relevant i don;t think i'm out of line to say an "adult life" can be worked out while still including skiing in your life.
myself i had the opportunity to ski bum it out west after teaching there one season- but knew that to have things i wanted- such as house etc that wasn;t too feasible. so we make concessions- but i'm moving into a house thats 5 mins aways from the biggest ski resort in ontario on friday- so skiing has not been dropped from my life in any respect.
myself i had the opportunity to ski bum it out west after teaching there one season- but knew that to have things i wanted- such as house etc that wasn;t too feasible. so we make concessions- but i'm moving into a house thats 5 mins aways from the biggest ski resort in ontario on friday- so skiing has not been dropped from my life in any respect.
Yeah you're right naftel, Reedy doesn't give a shit about skiing, he doesn't have the "love" in his heart. That must be it.
If it's someone you actually want to marry then he must be a bit more important to you than picking up and slumming it in some westcoast burg. If you're 21, it's pretty fucked up that you're even making these decisions much less asking for advice about them on this of all sites, but hey, I don't know you. And your fiancee sounds like a dick, but hey I don't know him either.
Simply put: if you're actually worried about "resenting" your husband for tying you down, then why the fuck are you getting married at 21.
If it's someone you actually want to marry then he must be a bit more important to you than picking up and slumming it in some westcoast burg. If you're 21, it's pretty fucked up that you're even making these decisions much less asking for advice about them on this of all sites, but hey, I don't know you. And your fiancee sounds like a dick, but hey I don't know him either.
Simply put: if you're actually worried about "resenting" your husband for tying you down, then why the fuck are you getting married at 21.
^ nicely said.
You're still young. Get out and do what you want to do. And for christ sakes DONT GET MARRIED UNTIL YOU'RE 32!!!!
I've seen way too many of my friends getting hitched when they're 22, 23, 24 whatever man, its just way too young. And they're not happy either. Just dont rush into anything
You're still young. Get out and do what you want to do. And for christ sakes DONT GET MARRIED UNTIL YOU'RE 32!!!!
I've seen way too many of my friends getting hitched when they're 22, 23, 24 whatever man, its just way too young. And they're not happy either. Just dont rush into anything
