My mommy found my bowl

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alex=

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inb4 underage, dumbass, and anything skiierman or ar6 have to say

Went to a friends house in another city for my week off. We smoked an ounce between us. I brought my shitty bowl as a backup piece. She found it in my bag (no idea why she was looking through my bag, probably because i'm a lazy piece of shit and didn't empty it) and didn't tell me about it until i asked today to hang out with my obviously pot-smoking friends in my hometown. She asked me about it in front of my grandma (she asked if we wanted to go into another room, but I said no. Why should I be embarrassed of what I am?). I obviously said Yeah it was mine, and basically asked her why she was surprised since I implied to both of my parents that I smoke two years ago. Then she got mad because she assumed I buy it, when really my friend who sells smokes me out every time.

I don't smoke often, this summer is the most I've ever smoked. during the school year I smoke once or twice every 2 months due to drug testing (i play basketball), but have been going crazy this summer. I'm not sure why she's mad.

How should I handle this NS? Now my mom knows 100% that I toke, as well as my 90 y/o grandma. help me out, +K shall be distributed
 
your problem is that you think anyone cares about you smoking weed. fucking prick.
 
Dont be a prick. Op just weather the storm. Your mom will get more accepting of it as you get older and she realizes its your choice
 
put a mattress in her pool

also stop being a little bitch, kids like you give this site a bad name. "wahhhhhh i love smoking weed its so cool i love being a stoner its who i am gaaaaawsshh mom just accept it why are you so harsh its just who i am wahhhhhhhhhhhh"
 
i did. still no one cares that your 90yr old grandma doesnt approve of you, get over it.
 
somehow you guys manage to be dicks about everything, i was simply just asking for advice on how to handle this shit because I never have before

and i fucked up when i said second to last sentence, actually the third to last. My B, send me to hell
 
I had to tell my parents I did a lot worse, it sucks for the first couple days, and they don't trust you for a while after. But you fucked up, take responsibility for it. Don't be a bitch.
 
Say you're sorry and move on? Instead of being like "gosh mom i HINTED at it two years ago that i smoked." Even though you want to yolosweg under your parents authoritay, you can't.
 
get into harder drugs

spiral downwards

promise to quit meth if you can smoke herb

never quit meth

smoke many cigarettes

parents lose all hope

 
I just don't know what you're trying to accomplish with this thread, you've obviously identified the predicament, there is nothing more you can change, just get on with life.
 
after re-reading the OP I can see how you guys perceive it as claims, but she's never gonna let me leave the house now so please help out. throw in your .02
 
The only thing you can do is accept it, deal with the punishment/consequences, and try to prove to her that despite this little bump in the road you're not a fuck up.

And of course she's mad, are you really surprised that she doesn't want her child doing drugs? That said she also probably knows pot's not the worst thing in the world and she'll get over it eventually if you're otherwise a good kid.
 
She's probably just mad that you only ever mooch off your friend. I mean no hate, but don't be that friend who never contributes :)
 
my mom and I exchange stories about our smoking experiences. Things were different back then, but its funny how the experiences are super similar.
 
Just accept any punishment you get. It's best to just accept the punishment, take it and deal with it, and make a choice as to whether you want to take the risk of continuing to smoke after. Also, don't give any names and/or rat out your friends, you don't want to get them caught too because odds are they won't appreciate you getting them caught. Whether your mom knows they do or not, if you don't give names then she only knows from speculation. I was in your position a couple months ago and I just admitted I do it, didn't give names (I'm sure my mom has speculated who I did it with, but I don't really hang with them anymore), and accepted any punishment she wanted to give. I told her to toss my bowl and the little weed I had in the dumpster. At this point she has somewhat moved past it, she obviously has lost some trust and that was my fault obviously, but it has settled down now. I haven't smoked since then, but I plan on eventually. I don't plan on having anything on me any time soon, as I don't want to risk having her find it again.

Spark notes: I was in your position a couple of months ago. Admit your fault, accept and take the punishment. Decide whether you want to continue smoking or not, but I recommend waiting a little bit, and waiting even longer to have shit on you.

Good luck man!
 
Now that I'm a little bit older, I realize why it was such a concern for my parents.

They were not worried about me smoking pot (which I don't btw, long story), they were worried that it'd make me lazy and jeopardize my future. They believe that it'll lead you into the wrong crowd of people. The drug itself is relatively harmless, your parents aren't stupid and know that.

The best thing you could do is sit down with your mom and dad. Talk to them like adults, look them in the eyes and talk calmly and confidently. Admit that you smoke pot occasionally. Make them understand it's under control and although you're able to stop at any given point in time, it's a social thing and frankly you enjoy it. If you approach it properly, they'll accept it eventually.

Then again, I don't know you or your parents. It could be they go apeshit, paddle your ass with a spoon, then send you off to boarding school. Luckily my parents always treated me as an equal and we were able to level on many things.

Keep in mind that odds are, your parents have smoked weed at some point in their lives. Likely, a lot of weed.
 
ask her why it is okay then to drink beer or wine.. also point out they sell cigarettes to people and weed is illegal, straight up BS. just give her good pointers as to why you smoke it and they should shut their traps
 
Life goes on, my mom woke me up by yelling at me on saint pattrick's day. It wreaked in my room from making kief the night before. Long story short I stashed my shit, and lost a half o and 6 pipes. Parents are bitches, I will be chill as fuck with my kids, as long as it is herb or alcohol.
 
might not work during the summer, but if you make good grades that's always a good card to play. Just say that if your grades are good, then you're obviously not going to be a fuck up.
 
you don't know why you're mom is mad? how fucking stupid are you? she's mad because weed is illegal, therefore you smoking weed is illegal, and could get you in trouble with the cops.

and you let your friend smoke you out every time? you must be a really shitty friend. the guy goes through the effort of getting weed for you literally every time you smoke, the least you could do is throw him a couple bucks.

in terms of what you can do, there really isn't anything. she already knows you smoke, genius. if she's gonna punish you she's gonna punish you, all you can do is not be too much of a little bitch about it
 
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