My good friend's mom just died

.John.

.John.

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I just got a call that my friensds mom was killed in a car accident, and I know she is going to turn to me for consolation.

I have no idea what to say, does anyone have any experiance in this situation? I really need help

also, thoughts and prayers for her family please.

i don't want this to get out too far but i heard ninthward has sex with armada-Twix_182

 
wow dude, my best friends mom died a few months ago, she was the best mom ever too. I felt like shit for awhile, but if you hang out with the kid i noticed it makes the wake and the funeral far easier. I'd recommend being with him as much as possible that's what i did.

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I can't really hang out with her, because she lives in new zealand, and I live in vermont

i don't want this to get out too far but i heard ninthward has sex with armada-Twix_182

 
Yeah, my best friends father died last year. I told him, (and kept teling him, from time to time when he seemed down) that if he wanted to talk about it or anything else then I was there for him. I also sometimes talk about silly stuff my father does ( I waited with that stuff until a time after the passing), ask him what his dad was like and stuff. To bring out positive memories and so, you know?

"When the going gets weird, the weird turns pro."

- Dr Hunter S. Thompson
 
hang with her for the rest of the night...make sure you're with her til she falls asleep and the next morning is going to be the hardest im sure shock is still in right now

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disreguard my post i didn't see the new zealand part

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yeah death is so unpredictable....i honestly thought my grandfather was gunna live like bob barker does.......but noooo he died 4 days ago.

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damn that sucks..and it also sucks that your best friend lives in new zealand..thats gotta be hard

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fly over there and dont tell her, and just be there and like hold her or something, if thats not an option just talk to her online or on the phone like as long as you can, even if that means staying up till like 5 in the morning.

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ya one of my best friends dad died tuesday, and had visitation today anf funeral 2maro, i just shook his hand today and asked how he was doin, he said good. he seemed good, but its just gonna hit him at wierd times, and idk what to say, im just really feelin sorry for him and prayin thats like all i can do

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more like "my chemical GAY romance with a gay man"!-mommy

 
Yup, it's probably gonna be a couple days/weeks when she just acts weird and doesn't say much and seems to be trying really hard to seem normal. After that there's gonna be a time when she's gonna cry a lot. After that she's gonna be able to talk openly about it and joke about her mom/other moms and stuff. That's at least how it went for my friend.

"When the going gets weird, the weird turns pro."

- Dr Hunter S. Thompson
 
yeah, she's not really my best friend, we just used to be really tight up until 5 years ago when she moved to new zealand, and we've just been talking online and stuff.

i don't want this to get out too far but i heard ninthward has sex with armada-Twix_182

 
there's really no set formula to go by or anything, just be there for her and help her through it. make sure you really listen to her though, because if she needs help from you in any way, she might not ask you directly, so just listen as best you can and try to be as perceptive to her feelings as possible.

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one of my friends moms died while in operation for a brain tumer...it was sad, but i didn't know what to say to her.

 
a good buddy of mine has to go back to prison in 3 days, and his mom just died at his house yesterday, soooooo sad and a really shitty situation... i'm just trying to stop him from doing anything stupid because all he could say to me was that he has nothing left to live for

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don't take me for a joke, i'm no comedian. too many mental problems got me snortin' coke and smokin' weed again.
 
im gonna first, kill your dad, then score with your mom when shes vulnerable, and then after im done with her, im gonna kill her too. you fuckin piece of shit. seriously, what the fuck. your probably one of those kiddy molesters cus you cant score on any other girl. go fuck your hand, asshole.

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but I can kinda see why he isn't all sad about it though. since he sees hundreds of people die each day and has to decide wether or not they are IN or OUT.

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Jesus, you are such a douche bag. this is my best friends mom that died. you are such a piece of shit, fuck off and die

i don't want this to get out too far but i heard ninthward has sex with armada-Twix_182

 
yeah thats pretty shitty....

shit happens. life throws you curveballs and you just learn to deal with it and keep on living. thats what we are supposed to do. tell your friend to keep on keepin on...thats what her mom would have wanted anyways. don't dwell on her death, but instead remember how awesome she was because thats how people want to be remembered.

 
i hope u burn in hell w/ ur brother satan

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your kinda screwed if she lives in new zeland....all i know is if one of my parentals died i hit the drugs

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el gato you're fucked

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The best thing to do would probably get her mind off of her mom. I mean I know its probably impossible at this point, but thinking about her mom probably just makes her more depressed, so a new subject to think about would definitely make her feel better. She really just has to mourn for a while, theres no skipping that part.

 
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