Not once have I heard praise for parents in this thread. I am blessed to have parents that very trusting of me, keep me under their roof, feed me, and pay for equipment, a car, and a pass so that I can ski.
When your parents do not trust you, it is simply because you have broken they trust they had in you. If you do things that they do not approve of and break that trust, you have no right to bitch about them not trusting you. You[/u] are the person who broke the rules, it is completely logical that you suffer the consequences.
Whether you like it or not, the role of a parent is to prepare you for real life. They make you take a part in the care of the house by doing chores. They push you into a job so that you can gain the experience of providing for yourself. They are not there to get you high or allow you to hold a party with all of your drunken friends. They are there to help you into the world in the way that they best see fit, and we all must deal with what we get.
Think of the many times that your parents have helped you out, driven you to go skiing, payed for lodging or lift tickets, or given you money for lunch. These are not a normal life, but a life of privilege. You are lucky to get to ski, and what do you call your parents? Dicks? Bitches? Where is the gratitude for what they have done for you? Where is the knowledge that without them, you would be suffering in ways you can't even imagine? And why am I the only person who has bothered to say something thus far?