MESSAGE TO ALL THE GIRLS

im owning up now....because i did mess up

but on a lighter note
if lookin gat it from a comedic point of view, it was actually a good read. i had a nice laugh
 
You've got to find that nice medium between asshole and nice guy. Or you be the asshole first to get the girl, then once you are in the relationship, you be the nice guy.
 
haha great read, so true.

i was the nice guy a few years ago, to an extreme level. and then i did what the article said and took the hint and moved the fuck on with my life...and then i became a massive douchebag...that was fun but it wasnt really me at all, but then i found a girl that i actually really liked and im with her to this day.

oh and by the way the girl who i was the nice guy to tried to hook up with me once i got a girlfriend and got turned the fuck down. hoe.
 
im not saying this isn't true but it really seems like all the guys looove the girls who are straight up bitches too... coming from a chick who's way nice but not anyone's bitch at all.
 
It's funny how human relationships have gotten so fucked men have to read books and go to seminars to get laid.

Women are expecting a bit much these days.
 
Yeah that guy who cheated on his girlfriend to hook up with you may be reeeuul hot, but don't start moaning when he cheats on your stupid ass.

That's all I'll say.
 
yeah it works the other way too. With all my guy friends I've pretty much always ended up as the "best girl that is a friend" as I watch them fall into the hands of some chic that like fluffy dogs and pink sweaters....
i believe that just as there are "nice guys" there are "nice girls". unfortunately if fate should have it that they bump into eachother....they are both too nice to do anything about it thus missing another perfect opportunity. And just as there are "douche bag guys" there are "bitch girls" and maybe they'll all find one another so that the nice guys and girls can only be with other nice guys and girls that are available! hoorah!
So a note to all the nice guys....dont become an asshole, but it never hurts to realize who you are and go for it
 
i just went out with a girl last night, her friend direct quote "where did you find this guy, hes so nice" i was instantly roaming the forums of non ski gabber
 
drew is right, well put.

totally had that happen. its nice to be dating someone who has a life beyond their relationship.
 
This is exactly right.

1. Don't act like one of her girlfriends, or you'll become one of her "girlfriends", in that you have to put up with all her drama without any physical benefits.

2. Don't dote on her. Don't be her bitch. Don't be afraid to speak your mind.

3. Teasing. It's the way of the future.

I went through three different "friendzone" situations and countless bottles of hand lotion before I accumulated the above knowledge. It was a long and immensely frustrating journey. Don't make the same mistake, suck it up and listen to Drew's advice. The man preaches truth.
 
pretty well written

kinda ruined it that it was a guy who wrote it. would have had more of an impact if it were a girl.

fuck what everyones says nice guys finish last, or girls dont pay attention.

they def do not finish last, nor do they finish first.

finish at a happy medium if you asked me.

i like to think that im a nice guy, and i got worked over a few times. but it has all worked out!! =]
 
I never really stood a chance in my "nice guy" situation because this girl and me were born just a few houses down from each other and were best friends before either of us were considering physical benefits.

Since then I really like her and she has told me on several occasions that she doesn't like me so stop trying, she's still my best friend and in no way do i bend over backwards for her, or am her bitch or anything, it's just a bummer that i like(d) her and threw myself out and was told no
 
Drew wins yet again.

i learned this lesson the hard way. remember that there is too nice. you have to have a line. you dont want to be spineless.

women feed on fear and compassion!
 
yeah I think there is a distinct difference between being someone's bitch and being "nice" to them
you can treat yourself and your lady with respect without doing everything they want
that being said, I have seen sooooooo many instances where legitimate assholes have gotten so much pussy it's not even funny
but I could never do that because I have more respect for myself and women than that
 
sorry to bring this back....but this XKCD comic reminded me of this thread

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don't be an alpha male asshole. PLEASE. us girls really don't need anymore of those. if u like a girl, tell her how u feel. reassure her or she'll end up being annoying and try too hard just to make u happy, and then she will lose all appeal to you. it's a vicious cycle
 
I am the nice guy, but I have slowly started becoming the alpha male jerk, and I am starting to get those girls that I wanted and ended up being friends with.

he who cares least wins.
 
pretty much every girl i know has, someway or another, ended up securely in the "friendzone." In all honesty, i hang out with more girls than guys outside of school (i go to an all guys highschool) so my situation is all the worse. so its like when i hang out with girls, its my group of friends, so its hard to branch out. Vicious cycle for sure. what to do lol. at least ill be in college next year, start over i guess.
 
wow this thread has actually made me realize a lot of things...from my current situation and then a bunch of things in the past as well.
i was always the nice guy to this one girl who had the douche bag boyfriend. she finally dumped him for me, and it was great for awhile. then i think, according to this thread, i became the "bitch" and she got rid of me and went back to her douche bag ex. i let her become the major part of my life...and thats what fucked me over..i wasn't really myself anymore.
^that situation pretty much turned me into the asshole...and guess what it got me laid a lot. the problem is though, every time i actually LIKE a girl, i revert back to the super nice guy, aka the bitch. thats why it seems like every time i actually like a girl, i get screwed over.....
*lightbulb*
the problem is how do i break the habbit of reverting back to being the nice guy when i start to really like a chick....b/c obviously thats the real me.
 
every girl is born crazy, thats just plain old science. but some girls are crazier and more dramatic then others. so the smart thing to do is to try and date the less crazy ones
 
i have a very very nice guy.. and i think nice guys are the best. i like nice guys who open doors and do all that stuff, so your wrong in my case, and i know lots of other girls out there like me. i see where your comming with the whole strong personality thing, but you can have both a stong personalitly and a guy who with do anything for you( just like my man :-)) and i think its very attractive if i guy does all that cute stuff for you, but some girls are bitches and skrew them over.

I hate ass holes and if your an ass hole ill tell you and i probably wont be very pleasent to you. ass hole guys are MAJOR turn offs. those "ass hole" guys think its totally fine to be a complete dick to a girl..and thats not right!1
 
Hahaha.

1. That's what Drew is saying, you can be confident without being an asshole.

2. Straight up, you do not know a lot of other girls "like you". You know a lot of other girls who think they like that, or pretend they like that. In my experience, what girls tell their friends and how they act in real social situations is entirely different.

3. Not to be that asshole, and yes this is definitely unnecessary, but I wouldn't be surprised if you get bored of him. My sister had a guy like yours who she loved more than life itself, they were inseparable for a year and a half. She sounded exactly like you whenever she talked about him, he did SO much shit for her... and eventually she got bored of it and broke up with him. My sister and I are pretty close, she's not a bitch like that, it's just what happens. Good for you if it works though.
 
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