You know what i think love is? Love is a hormon called 'Oxytocin'. Oxytocin is released when you get companionship of any kind. It's basically a happy drug that most peoples bodies crave. It's more effective in women as estrogen increases it's effectiveness, and testostoerone decreases it's effectiveness. It's effectiveness varies from person to person which is why some people can deal with one night stands (people with higher testosterone levels...and yes girls have testosterone) and some people just can't because they get attached (lower testosterone). It gets released at certain times...say, when you first kiss a girl...it makes you feel all tingly inside, and then makes you crave more...thus love is born. If your needs aren't being met, the flow of oxytocin is reduced causing you to seek out another source (ie what your girlfriend did)Basically as long as all of your needs are being met, and the flow of oxytocin keeps going...you stay happy and feel 'loved'. ALTHOUGH there is a link between disapointment and oxytocin...possibly due to a sudden decrease in the level of it in your brain. This causes that 'knot' in your stomach.
Anyways, the point is, love is nothing more then drugs running through your body, eventually...you'll find a new source (another girl) who'll get your oxytocin flowing again...and hey, if you don't, you can get the exact same results with heroin.
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You're old enough to know that you won't get a lot of things in life because you don't have tits' - One of the 1/4 pipe builders at snowjam winnipeg to a couple young boys in response to why we'd let 3 girls on the ramp and not them
******************** Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired signifies, in the final sense, a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and are not clothed. -Dwight D.Eisenhower, U.S. general and 34th president (1890-1969)
Don't think just jump.