Don't just get a loaded. Find some metro motions, 80 or 82a, they're quite slidey. Calibers are nice, paris v2s look nice, never ridden them yet. It's more about technique then equipment, anything slides if you do it right.
Not everybody races, but everybody who doesn't race isn't a dudebro mongo pusher frat boy. I've never been in a formal/outlaw race, but I go fast and slide and stuff. I and a lot of other people are far from the bros that ride, poorly, to class to look cool. It's a shitty stereotype.