just do some research via the interweb on Reno and Truckee. Sounds like the both of you could find descent jobs in those areas with your skills. Rent in Reno is $300-500 and in Truckee $450 and up. I live in Truckee in a fairly modern house(3 bdrm) and our heat/gas bill is around $150/month, electric/water bill is about $100 a month. You jus have to decide how much you want to live in the mountains as any money you save by living in Reno would get burned up in gas making the 40 mile commute each day. Oh..groceries in Tahoe are outragous!! It's not comfirmed but the Truckee safeway is supposed to have the highest profit margin of the whole company. I believe it. I went the other day to get lunch supplies and spent $50 on bread, PB&J, tuna, mayo, hamburger, gaterade. For the same I can go to reno and get a weeks worth of everything at Trader Joe's and WinCo plus save .20 a gallon on gas down there.