Keepin ur cool at parties...(fight related story)

Luc.

Luc.

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so tonight i went to my friends(girl a) house where a party was being held for girl b(18th birthday)...now i was driving(fortunatley) so around 11pm we head over to this girls house. when we get there, we see a few coke heads that i have had problems with in the past,(backround:basiaclly the guy wanted to fight me cause i didnt smoke cigarettes...yah i know, but i didnt)

around 12...the guy i had a problem with before(not anymore that was a few months ago) started FREAKIN OUT cause APPARENTLY he had 250$ on him and it was now not in his jacket. so he started going up to random people and grabbing them, threatning to beat them up unless he gets him money back...until he goes to a friend of mine who trains in mma.(as do i btw) he grabs him, and the mma guy throws him to the ground and is about to feed him some shots but is restrained. the coke head then pushes a girl(like hard shuve) and then we try to kick him out before we knock his teeth in...

needless to say he was not going to leave.

the dad comes down(super legit guy) and tries to haul him off, while he is fighting like 2 other people, and eventually calls the cops as he kept trying to get back into the house.(parents are now involved)

cops come and tell him to split, which he doesnt(goes and hides in a nearbuy parK)

MEANWHILE.

cokehead 2 comes along. and starts telling everyone to get the fuck out. we are all like....uhhhhh no thanks (cause we didnt know who the fuck he was and even told girl a to leave)

he proceeds to tell girl b(real good friend of mine) to shut the fuck up//

i tell him not to talk to her that way.

he looks at me..

coke head: "do u know who the fuck i am?"

me: "i dont fucking give a shit who u are...dont talk to my friend like that"

cokehead" you're gonna die tonight..blah blah blah...(runnin his mouth)get ready to die cause i am going to kill you...do u really wanna die???"

at this point, there are like 5 people slowly pushin me back...and i say

"i will keep both my hands behind my back..."

(which i do and stick me chin out)

which of COURSE pisses him off even more...

so he keeps tellin me he is going to kill me and i obviously have like 10 people calmin me down(i am pretty fired up at this point)

and basically i think it isnt worth it. for me to either get fucked up...or for me to kick his face in.

i keep sayin.."you;re right bro i am sorry, blah blah blah..."

after a few minutes he calms down and a few of my friends talk him down...when there are like 3 pople standing between him and me...i go up and say sorry again and go to shake his hand...

"as long as u never fucking touche my friend ever again.."(i never touched him i had no fucking clue what he was talking about)

then he shakes my hand...

i thought that the way i handled it was the best way...thoguht?

i don tknow what it is but when i am sober and others are drunk they want to fight me...what the shit...happen to anyone else?
 
You handled it in the most mature way possible dude, props on restraining yourself even though you obviously had a couple chances to ruin some shit.
 
it's easy to wanna wreck house when you are on your turf and with your boys and stuff, but given these kids you probably made the right decision, sounds like wanna be thugs, never know if they actually might make that move trying to be hard with a gun or something. i still would have kicked their asses though if they were at my place or a good friends party, im a crazy drunk
 
sometimes its not really even worth holding back because chances are the same kid is gonna be starting the same shit a day later with some one else. Its something you learn after dealing with drunk kids
 
thats awesome. you sir, are truly a man. it takes a man to do something like that. a real man can see that usually fights are not worth it and saying some empty words like "im sorry blah blah blah" is worth it, because you know you aren't actually losing face.

just take pleasure in the fact that someone with less restraint will kick these kids' asses at some point. and theyre addicted to coke and cigarettes.

oh and for you kids out there, fighting is hands down the easiest way to get arrested in college, or actually, in general. not really worth it, and chances are whoever you fight has a bunch of friends who will wail on you all at once.
 
You handled it really well. Fighting is a sure way to end up in the slamer, and you don't want an assault charge on your record. Even if you don't go to jail and you win the other guy could come back and sue you, just not worth it unless its absoloutly necessary.
 
I only fight when Im pushed to man, If someones pissing me off and I keep my cool I may be steamed about it later and bitch about how I didnt do anything about it but in the end, but you did the right thing man

P.S. how drunk were you typing this.
 
u shouldve just gave him one shoot right to the fuckin nose.... that wouldve knocked his ass out and u couldve said he was so messed up on alcohol/drugs that passed out and hit his nose
 
yea i wasnt drunk at all when i typed it. i had nothing to drink actually. i just tend to type fast and not very accurate.

anyways...UPDATE. coke head 1 found his money. it was in his pocket.
 
i commend you my friend.

however, (and this is just my personal opinion, quite possibly stemming from my never having been in a fight, and my skinny stature) i am a firm believer in the fact that some people just need to straight up get the shit beat out of them. I personally have very little respect for coke heads, particularly ones that are real open about it and get all coked out and do stupid shit.....and you, training in mma, had a perfect opportunity to show these kids what happens when they're disrespectful, immature cokeheads.

if it happens again, don't be afraid to throw down. some people might respect you less for it, but they'll still respect you for defending your friends.
 
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