Just found out bad news

SirFryanator

SirFryanator

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This all came crashing down on me 3 days ago. My doctor told me that he didn't think any asian part of my heritage would show and he thought originally thought I was going to possibly be 6 feet tall, now he says probably not. More like 5'10 or 5'9" at most.

I got caught with bud last weekend and my parents are extending my grounding until the week before my birthday (june 20th) so there's no time to organize a party. They're calling the police on me next time they find out I'm high or have any. They told my girlfriend through calling their parents that I can't go on any dates with her till I'm un-grounded and her parents didn't know we were going out. Plus, my mom told me while driving back from the doctor that both my birth parents, their parents, and their grandparents on both sides were severe alcoholics, my birthfather is probably in the army right now, or dead (he was 16 when my mom gave birth to me, she was 16 too), and that right now I have the highest of becoming an alcoholic if I get drunk within the next year or so. I have an addictive personality I guess.

Basically, I can't party for my 16th birthday, if I don't get a 3.75 (our school doesn't weight honors/AP classes so its super hard) or above I'm grounded for the summer basically, and I'm going to be short. So I've been sitting home on the weekend chillin on NS and doing work.

Fun shit.
 
Yea well my mom just found out she has cancer and my whole family is a bunch of alcoholics too. I also have Tetralogy of Fallot and had heart surgery when I was a baby and couldn't play sports until I was 12. I landed on my head doing a backflip so now I have constant pain in my neck that will never heal. Along with the allergies, asthma and the possibility of diabetes I'd say I have a damn good life. Still feelin bad?
 
that sucks man. the grounding will probably go away, they wont remmeber for ever. like my one friend, she was supposed to be grounded all this su,mmer, but her parents have completely forgotten all about it. hopefully that will happen to u.
 
that sucks and all, but don't be a dick. congrats on being worse off, but feel sorry for someone else for a second
 
i have no asian heritage and im pretty much full grown at 5' 8". just live with it man.. theres nothing you can do to stop your genes so don't sulk about it.

You had bud, you got caught. It's illegal and your parents are just trying to steer you on the right path. I agree that calling the police is a bit harsh, but they just want to show to you that it's bad and they don't want you to get into any more trouble with it.

And what do you mean you can't organize a party in one week? are you fucking kidding me? You could also organize everything while at home if your grounded...

Whats the big deal if your GF's parents didn't know you guys were going out.. It's a high school relationship.. whats the big deal?

The alcoholic thing is unfortunate, but is your life really over because you can't drink alcohol? I'm sure if you drink in moderation and don't get smashed every weekend you won't become an alcoholic..

Getting the 3.75 is in your hands.. You can easily make it happen by doing your homework, studying, and trying to do your absolute best YOU know you can do, not half-assing the work and making your parents think you are trying hard.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything.. just trying to put it into perspective for you. Don't feel bad for yourself, step up to the plate and you can fix everything. Don't have a shitty attitude and approach to everything either.

Sorry for kind of being a bitch and being so blunt about it, but I'm really just trying to help.

 
I have no reason to feel sorry for him and his choices. My bad fortune has nothing to do with the choices I made except for getting hurt skiing. I don't need sympathy like him. I hate when people say how much life sucks but they have it so easy. Wait until they have something tragic happen to them. Getting grounded for 3 weeks is nothing.
 
no I've been straight-edge like no other (people at high north can attest to that) and my marks have been pretty good in general.

and to the other guys, it's really not that bad being grounded but finding out your dad could be dead sucks.
 
That sucks, I can't say anything about your heart. Hope everything went well.

I'm not going to have a competition about who has a worse life, clearly you do. I have it pretty well off, I live in a middle-class neighborhood and I have a job, and I have a girlfriend. I didn't ever really feel bad about it, I probably shouldn't bring illegal substances onto a property that's not mine anyways without their consent.

But you do put it into perspective. Thanks.
 
Harsh. My mum let me go out on the town when I turned 16 no problem. (Drinking age 18 though) You'll just have to be more careful I suppose. Good luck with it!
 
well I have some good news. whether you have just one parent or a whole family of alcoholics, you still have the same probability of becoming one. So, it isn't like you have an insane likelyhood of becoming an alcoholic, it is just the same as someone who only has one aloholic parent
 
I'm not trying to compete at all. All I'm saying is in hindsight, do you really think its a big deal?
 
I'm pretty sure "royale" is the name of a "ski company" a kid I know very, very well named Matt was thinking of making and people didn't think he could do it. After a year or 2 he thought royale was a stupid name and changed it.

Don't be an asshole.

What if your dad was possibly dead?

Don't hate.
 
Yea well my grandpa died after getting hit by a UPS truck, a month after my other grandpa died after 2 weeks of pancreatic cancer.

And I don't get to see a dime from UPS, because my family is too retarded to sue them big time.

:P There's no need for you to usurp attention in someone elses thread.
 
well if you knew your dad for a while it would suck to find out he might be dead

but did you ever know him? at all

 
thats no way to go through life. we should be sympathetic of everyones problems, even though some are far more dire and some, such as yours, much more life changing. but going through life expecting sympathy is no way to be, you just have to live your life the best that you can. but, i do see where your coming from, and its harder for me to relate because i dont have the problems you have, but if you wanted to put it on even even larger scale, at least your still alive and are able to do many of the things you love.
 
im 21, not asian and im 5'6....tough shit eh?

dont bitch about height, 5'9 isnt bad. Big deal you wont be a 6 foot tall model...get over it.

as for the rest of that shit, welcome to the world of being a teen, everyone has phases like that, just gotta get through em. Sucks.
 
you didnt know your dad by the sounds of it so i dont see the big deal, so what your not gunna be 6' who cares im an ugly mother fucker and i get by

life sucks get over it or your gunna have a shitty one
 
Well no I didn't know my dad I was adopted when I was 1 because they were too poor and were still in rehab, but I'd still like to know them.

In fact, I'm writing a letter to the adoption agency right now so that I can get some info on them.
 
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