The point is that Jacob isn't just leaving as boldly as he said, he's coming back on and looking at the message replys he's gotten. If he's going to start the whole shit-fight, he may as well stick around and talk it out with everyone else.
Wester is just ONE out of however many members, but he's a big pro now, and he just condemned this site, which is Doug's life as of right now. Doug has every right to call him out on being a creep about it, it's his source of income. If Jacob really wanted to help out, he would have done so, not just started some stupid internet drama that strokes his sensitivity, lol.
Doug, that IP thing was magic.