To be perfectly honest, onece you've made a choice, anyone who was really in love with you would accept that the decision you made was the one that you believe will bring you happiness. That's all that matters, and it should be the only important thing as far as your bf and this other guy are concerned. If it isn't, then it isn't love. That should be reason enough for your boyfriend not to get pissed off and call the cops. It's just not in your best interests for him to get you in trouble with the cops. Tell him; he'll understand, if he's worth anything. It's hardly your fault that someone fell for you, and if your only intention is to tell restraining order guy that you can't be with him, I can't see any reason for your bf to object to that. As for the restraining order... yeah, meet him somewhere where you don't think people who know you will be. If you want to be safe; that's just a precaution, I think it'll probably be fine.
This is all pretty damn dramatic, though.
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In a haze
A stormy haze
I’ll be around
I’ll be loving you
Always
Always
Here I am
And I’ll take my time
Here I am
And I’ll wait in line
Always
Always...