Im a dumbass.....

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freeskier0808

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ok so heres my story, and yes its about a girl....shes cool and hot as hell ive known her almost all my life (were neighbors)and so theres nothing that we dont know about each other, and talking to her is so easy, unlike some girls r, and she also likes everything i like, and she has everything that i look for in a girl, and just the other day she just broke up with her boyfriend and she was pissed so she calls me up an is like hey come out side, were gonna go take a drive. So i get out of bed and go to her car and we ride around for a bit, then she gets out a bowl we smoke an talk, an hang out for like an hour, then she had to go home, but since then weve been hangin out so much and talkin on the phone an shit, thing that sucks about all this is i never thought to date her until now (unfortunatly it would never work out cause im movin in a month)but its like ive been wasting all this time trying to find a cool girlfriend, and all this time shes been right there beside me, and i just never thought about it, plus another thing that really sucks about it is that now that ive known her for so long i dunno if i could date her because i think of her more as a friend, and if we were to date and then broke up i wouldnt have her to talk to as a friend....DAMNIT

moral of story: what you have been looking for all your life could be right there in front of you, you just never thought about it....

so post on this however you like i just had to get it off my chest and if you have any advice feel free to share it....

peace
 
that sucks dude, but shit, go for it if you only have a month left...a month of happiness beats a lifetime of regret. tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...and all that jazz
 
i had the same deal a long time ago. never did anything about it. the whole friends thing. i regret it.

jurassic 5-thin line.
 
why won't it work if you move... how far away are you moving? i'm sure you've dated other girls that aren't your nextdoor neighbor.
 
it wouldnt work cause i live in north carolina right now and in one month i will be living at steamboat springs, colorado...and i havent heard many good things about a long distance relationship....they r hard to keep....

peace
 
^haha right that would go over well hey i know this is random but move with me, haha, but yeah im movin there for good unless things dont go right for me....

peace
 
well maybe it is better that you didn't know that you like her that way until now man. You wouldn't want feelings for her to stop you from moving to Colorado. And yeah long distance would be pretty rough to get into, without plans to be back together sometime. I honestly would maybe just tell her how you feel though. Like you're still gonna be friends right? I wouldn't try and start a long distance relationship or anything though.
 
give her a fair shagging, but stay friends with her, so you can still communicate with her after you leave, but she doesn't think of you as just a friend. that way you can hook up later and she'll keep you in mind in a more than friendly way. otherwise she'll never see you as anything more. don't slack in the sack either.
 
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