If I had the balls to kill myself, I would have already

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Am I the only who feels this same why?

relevant: there is a coast guard add urging me to 'make the jump' on the top... fitting
 
i mostly relied on these steps to help me deal with being bummed alot until i got caught. now that i can't really i've noticed that it definitely helped. likely not the best way to deal with issues but it works
 
Dude, don't say things like this. If he is serious, then it is serious. Don't put people down like this.
 
you were really suicidal you wouldnt be too "pussy" to kill yourself. Just relax talk to friend and loved ones and take some deep breaths. You will get through whatever is troubling you.
 
I used to have that feeling like 3 years ago and just barely started cutting on my neck and realized that there are still a lot of better things in life that you wouldn't even expect and haven't even found yet. Look for the small little things everyday to get you through, it was as simple as that. Think of it as everyday you wake up you're closer to whatever you're seeking.

As cliche as the saying is: "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem."

But then again that's why it's cliche, because it's true.

Anyways:

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I totally sympathize with you, but if you're going to pull that "give me attention, interwebs, or I'll kill myself", then fuck you. Hate that shit.

If you need help, go get help. Also if you need the truth on how bad shit can get, go to 4chan. That'll set you straight just by browsing the asshole of the internet for 5 minutes.

There's a relevant picture I was looking at today that had a girl hold a gun(not sure if fake) to her head while crying and taking a picture. That shit. That shit needs to go away.

Not one to say do it, but take a few days and evaluate you're life. Really evaluate. Not saying it's worth it, but seriously look all the possibilities and good that you can do, and if you really can't find anything that's worth living for, then it's your choice.

Truth.
 
I'm not suicidal. I'm just realllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly fucking bummed out and everything fucking sucks for me right now. and to the person mad at ar6, I've been here a year I know good and well he can be a dick sometimes and sound like he's saying opposite of what he's implying and meaning.

I just want to know if anyone else feels like they would be long gone if they had the guts as well.
 
Go skiing, it makes everything better!

but seriously, that's the reason everybody skis, it just replaces any anxiety sadness depression ect. with awesome, and if you can't for some reason then just watch ski videos or something so you can look forward to when you can. you can't ski pow if you're dead. If you live then someday you probably will
 
There are plenty of people who struggle with depression their entire lives who are never able to get over, or away from, it. It's naive to think it's just a "temporary problem" for them.
 
For the majority of people it is just a temporary problem. Highschool for example has so many people that struggle with minor depression but think it's the end of the world and blow it way up. For those with severe depression obviously it's not temporary but still not a solution. There is plenty of medication to take some of the weight off.

One of my best friends struggles with severe depression and he's been taken medication for a while and is almost rid of it.
 
Alright I'll give you a serious response, ya other people feel that way I know I've thought of suicide before but you have to understand life will be better later in life. Really unless you're 50+ and ruined your life thinking about ending your life is stupid you have so much to live for and so much you can do in your life. Honestly if you actually are seriously depressed and not just a oversensitive attention whore, go get help. Talk to your parents, friends, guidance counseler or even the kids help line just talk to somebody who will listen and care what you have to say. Don't turn to the internet where you'll get people like me earlier who are sick and tired of attention whores or sick people who just want people to kill themselves. so to end this rambling post GET HELP.
 
That's why I said "plenty" and not "all." Medication works for some people, and that's great, and it doesn't work so well for others. And even taking medication doesn't fix the problem, just masks it. At a certain point I think it should be acceptable to view suicide as a solution for certain people who have tried everything else and had none of it work. If a person is waking up miserable everyday and falling a sleep miserable everyday, who are we, as society, to tell them they should have to keep doing it just because we aren't comfortable with suicide/don't like the idea of it
 
That's why I said "plenty" and not "all." Medication works for some people, and that's great, and it doesn't work so well for others. And even taking medication doesn't fix the problem, just masks it. At a certain point I think it should be acceptable to view suicide as a solution for certain people who have tried everything else and had none of it work. If a person is waking up miserable everyday and falling a sleep miserable everyday, who are we, as society, to tell them they should have to keep doing it just because we aren't comfortable with suicide/don't like the idea of it
 
vibes dude, maybe you need a change in your life. exercise can help, as can enjoying beautiful scenery

like these

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or those

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?

Talk to someone close to you about it, that's my best advice, your parents would be a good start.
 
Who would like the idea of suicide? Medication works for majority of the people so in that case that quote comes into play. Quotes are usually generalizations so back to the first argument, yes, it's cliche because it's true.

Now, I'm not trying to argue about suicide or peoples takes on it because it no matter how you look at it it sucks from the depression that never leaves to the act itself.
 
If I had the balls to I probably would have. I know how you feel for sure. Just don't start drinking, or smoking to make it better. Just think it out, and realize that most of the problems that you're stressing over aren't even all that big of a deal. (unless they're not, in which case just sort them out) Good luck, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
 
Go hire a hooker and blow a load on her face. Then when she looks at you like she belongs on the short bus, you'll realize that it could always be worse. It could be you catching loads on the face for 40 bucks.
 
Someone who is sick of living?

Again, there is a difference between "majority" and "everyone." And generalizations are almost never true. For example: all black people are criminals, all Asians are geniuses. Those are generalizations, they're not true. Similarly saying suicide/depression is always a temporary problem is not true.
 
before I was drastic enough to kill myself i would definitely be drastic enough to move to a different country, start a new life, find new friends, etc. There is always another way.

 
I said quotes not racial generalizations. Nut again for the majority of people depression is temporary.
 
If you're still in high school, realize it will soon be over and you'll be in college which is way better. If you're in college realize that you'll soon be out, and making money and have time to really pursue your hobbies. If you're out of college and/or working realize that some day you'll be able to walk out of the office, building, etc and never EVER have to go back again.

It is easy to dwell on the shitty present. You need to set a goal and every day re-evaluate what you need to do to achieve it.

(gay comparison not intended) It does get better.
 
I know. You said quotes are often generalizations. My point was generalizations themselves are almost never true. Right, for the majority of people, not all. So why not say "suicide is usually a permanent solution to a temporary problem"? Not putting the "usually" there implies "always," which isn't true.
 
its not that i dont have the balls todo it, its just i understand that life can get super fucking shitty and that it will end eventually but its almost that you have to fight it to push through it. u cant essentially let ur depression control u and allow it to consume your life, thats when the extremes start kicking in. been there, done that. no fun. total different outlook on life after youve had a life changing experience like having a freind of urs die. u rethink ur life and what you can actually do with it if u commit 100% to fixing it or completing whatever it is you want todo
 
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