I want to be in love

thanks for the advice man. but right now the best thing i can do is just try to be her friend. we have already talked. whatever happens happens. but we all know what im hoping for.
 
it does if your in prison... not that i'd know i've never been in prison... haha jk, but seriously i say if you look hard enough stop looking it will find you... theny you can make love to it... then when you're 26 you can marry it
 
yes,but it's truth..if u don't search it will find u..it's sth amazing..it's love..I met my longtime bf when the love was the last thing i was looking for(almost)..
 
i've been seeing my girlfriend since around march.

sweet, thats like 6 months or something.
 
i have. ive told her everything. ive poured my heart out. i could see myself marrying her in a few years. like 4-5 years. but i said some very painful things. not with the intention of hurting. but because i was scared. i rambled off things that i thought would help. they didnt. i seriously think she will come back in 3-4 months or 5. or maybe she wont. i know if i met another girl and started dating her and she came back to me and said she realized what i did for her i would know what i felt and give her another try. dont think i havent told her that. ive told her with every ounce i have in me what i feel. now it gets crazy. my family is intensely mormon back in oregon. im not even close to being mormon. so they expect me to fall in love with a mormon and make the right decisions. i never told them i fell in love. cause i didnt want to dissapoint them. well i told them the other day in hopes that it would show the girl what i felt. she liked it but she is over it. she says she loves me as a best friend. and cant stand not talking to me every day. she says im the one she wants to call me first whenever anything crazy happens. now to me that says helloooooooooo look if you want that contact. there is still a connection. she goes nuts when im not all about her. thinks im being mean, when in reality im just trying to get myself out of this big hole i have because she left and wont give me another chance. deeeeyamn. that was a lot of typing.
 
dude, I shed a tear. That definatly sounds like love to me. I really hope she knows that you love her. it's too bad you didn't tell her sooner but thats ALWAYS the way things go. We don't realize what we had till it's gone. Best of luck though..
 
Look man, here is what she is doing-

She really wants to be around you because she misses the connection. She wants you to be there badly, but only on her terms. (This btw, is exactly what my ex girfriend did) She thinks that if she can have you as her best friend she will feel better about everything. She still wants you for the emotional support.

So here is what you need to do. Make it perfectly clear that you don't just want to be friends. You want it to be more than that. So don't be a cuddle whore (being there for her when she wants it emotionally) if you aren't getting the same back in return. Stay out of friend zone as much as possible. If she pulls the "I just want to be friends with you" line, tell her straight up that you are not ok with it. Don't be an asshole, but make sure she knows what you want.
 
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!

i met this one chick once, 2 hours later we were in bed undressed baking a cake... she licked the frosting
 
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