I think I lost my best friend. What do I do?

Honestly dude, what you gotta do is just say fuck it. I know how you feel man. You seriously just have to say to hell with him, and let him fuck himself up if hes dating a bitch. Me and my friends have a similar situation going on too with a bro. Just gotta learn to say fuck it and let him be.
 
I didn't read the full 2 pages but it sounds like your buddy needs a solid yell. I had a best friend in a similar situation. Actually pretty much the exact same situation. One night we were at the same party and I had one too many beers and just fucking screamed at him like an abusive Father. He straightened out a few weeks later and finally figured out he was being sheltered by a manipulative girlfriend. Now I have my best friend back.
 
I feel you dude. My best friend throughout elementary, middle and freshmen year of high school ditched me for a guy. He didn't control her but she just chose him over me and all of her other friends. I tried everything to still be a good friend to her but she just wanted to talk to me when her boyfriend was working or busy. Eventually it got to the point where I didn't talk to her at all. I stopped trying to be her friend altogether.

I forgot about the whole situation and had moved on. Then she tried venting to me in the middle of school the day after they broke up. I pretty much told her to fuck off and called her out.

Truth is there isn't anything you can do to change it. He's gonna do what he wants. It's really fucking shitty but as soon as they break up he will go to you and apologize. Whether you care at that point is up to you. But as long as he is with her, he's probably not going to change.
 
13219482:michaelhuddyski said:
A true friend would never do this. Bros before Hoes.
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say ayy mane youre being the girl in your relationship and shes controlling you. jk but does he even believe that she actually cheated on him or just nah hes chill haha??

ive been there though dude. i dont think theres too much you can do. you could take the route and say sorry even though you did the right thing and once hegets out of his phase be like "yea dude you know i wasnt lying. she really did cheat on you" then by then he might be like yea i know. or you just say how you feel straight up and leave it up to him to become friends again or not. and if he doesnt, then youll know that you tried and that its his fault that he didnt want to be friends.
 
13212660:El_Barto. said:
People change...deal with it and move on instead of crying like a pussy
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Healing up from my brain surgery, I definitely learned who my real friends are. Most people here are still in HS when you get older, you learn that what barto says is true.
 
13220017:zzzskizzz said:
Healing up from my brain surgery, I definitely learned who my real friends are. Most people here are still in HS when you get older, you learn that what barto says is true.
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Babydick knows whats up. I have literally widdled my group of friends outside my family down to two. Ive got my best friend from 3rd grade and my girl. Aint nobody else i feel i can count on. And even then its really just 1...my best friend actually is like a brother. We can not talk for months and when we do its like we never missed a beat.

Exactly how I am with my actual brother. When you get older you will know what we are talking about
 
13220026:El_Barto. said:
Babydick knows whats up. I have literally widdled my group of friends outside my family down to two. Ive got my best friend from 3rd grade and my girl. Aint nobody else i feel i can count on. And even then its really just 1...my best friend actually is like a brother. We can not talk for months and when we do its like we never missed a beat.

Exactly how I am with my actual brother. When you get older you will know what we are talking about
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Yeah there really is no escaping it. I'm down to probably 15ish or so, but we are all kinds of spread out.
 
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