How to get rid of feelings for your ex :(

Don't worry about it, I was being a dick. Best way to get over her? Do stuff you enjoy. That's what life is all about anyways.
 
Give all the shit she left at your house, in your car, ect. BACK. Creates great closure to any relationship.

Annd....

Listen to Weird Al's version of "since you've been gone"

Since you've been gone

Well, I feel like I've been chewing on tinfoil

Since you've been gone

It's like I got a great big mouthful of cod liver oil

Oh well, I'm feelin like I stuck my hand

Inside a blender and turned it on

You know, I've been in a buttload of pain

Since you've been gone

(Since you've been gone)

I couldn't feel any worse if you dropped

A two-ton bowling ball on my toes

(Since you've been gone)

It couldn't hurt any more if you shoved

A red-hot cactus up my nose

Since you've been gone

Well, it feels like I'm getting tetanus shots every day

Since you've been gone

It's like I've got an ice cream headache that won't go away

Ever since that day you left me

I've been so miserable, my dear

I feel almost as bad as I did

When you were still here

 
Fake it 'till you make it.

You are playing a game now and currently you are behind.

Once she finds out that you are mopin' around she will win. Game over. She will be even happier than she was before because she knows she is still wanted by you. On the other hand if you act like it's not a big deal (respectfully) she will to question the breakup, feel insecure, and want you. And by this point you will have moved on. Do not get back together with her. As people have said before, there are sooo many other fish in the sea. Like so many. Trust me. Many girls want your D.

Take all of the things that remind you of her and get them out of your life. Go skiing. Hit the gym (something athletic). Call your friends you haven't seen in awhile. Unsubscribe from her facebook (KEY...in fact do this now). Start hittin' on other cuties. Hook up with random people. Focus on school. Focus on you.

In a year (or less) you will look back on this thread.

And then you'll understand.
 
at the end of the day weed is a depressant. I just got broken up with after 2 1/2 years, and i still love her, after she left i quit smoking after smoking pretty much everyday for two years and it feels great. Only regret is that i spent so much of my time with her stoned......
 
Real Talk.

I was going to post something along the lines of this.

Biggest thing that helped me was going out and doing shit. I'm lucky I have a brother I'm close with so it was easy to go off and do cool shit to keep my mind off things. Find a new hobby, get in touch with old friends, just do something and it'll help.
 
i recently had a shitty breakup from my girlfriend of over a year. Not like part ways peacefully, were talkin full on chainsaw massacre bloodbath. So i came home one day, and took everything she had ever given me, put it in a box, threw it in the fireplace, and watched that mother fucker burn. Sure it still bothers me from time to time but i havent looked back since. I Highly recommend doing this.
 
i respect that approach and it sure takes courage but for its like im not mad that she left me, her feelings changed, thats just how it goes sometimes. So while it sucks and it has been the hardest thing ive ever had to do (we dated for almost three years) and ive never lost a loved one or anything, i still look back on our memories and smile. Its like the stupid cliche saying "in the end dont cry that its over, smile because it happened." Whatever works for you though, i will gladly admit that if she called me right now and said she wanted to get back together there would be no hesitation on my part, but at the same time i cant just wait around for her. Go out and meet new people, and who knows maybe you find someone that helps you forget about her, maybe she realizes what you guys had was great and she wants to try it again (which is what im still hoping for) but dont wait for her man. The second she finds out that youre waiting on her, she will be pushed away even further. Take the higher road, dont go and post pictures of you with other girls to try and make her jealous, post pictures of you that show that you are happy and can survive without her. someone else already said but when your destroyed on the inside (I still am) you gotta put up a facade on the outside, and eventually that facade will merge into your true feelings. Remember it can always be worse, always. This break up for me has been the slap in the face i needed to quit smoking weed, get in shape, do my absolute best in school (cause thats my future) and most impotantly never lie again no matter how inconsequential or trivial it is. It seems like this is the worst thing thats happened to you, and it may be, but USE it, to better yourself, to become an even better version of you, and in the end that will either help you find someone even better or make her realize that you are the guy for her.
 
Usually if your a pretty strong person you can get rid of those feelings pretty quick. Like I broke up with my girl last week, and she only comes over to hang out/do the dirty. But other than that I could care less what she does. You just have to be strong and rise above those. Plus your in a different state, there is no way you should still have feelings for her when you are that far away.

Plenty of fish in the sea, fuck all of them!
 
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