How to get out of the friendzone?

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legit story for op!!!

my girlfriend of now a year and 3 months.

well we were best friends from like 6th grade until like sept of 11th grade. (im a senior now) well i liked her on and off not enough to ruin our friendship over... in september i asked her out on a "casual date". a few more casual dates later. and me being a nice guy and telling her that she was pretty and all the nice guy stuff. she held my hand while walking through the mall. a few days later. out at dinner i told her how i felt. she was flattered as any women would be. 2 months later after working out the kinks like a first kiss that was kinda weird cause we were more friends at that point. i asked her out on her birthday. so now our anniversary is dec 23. which means i need 3 big presents all at one time lol. dropped a lot of money around x mas time ill tell ay that.... but seriously if its a good girl just come clean and be the nice guy. surprises notes on her car random visits after school just to ask how the day went. i still do all that to this day and she cant get enough of them
 
Did OP want advice? I thought we were just telling stories.

Also, yeah...boys your right! If the girl liked you, why would she friendzone you? SHE LIKES YOU!

If you're in the friendzone, youre kinda screwed. Sorry. And I'll kinda agree, something about being ignored makes the girls head go a little weird. But i don't know if it will get you out of the friendzone..
 
You got karma for that because every other answer involves pushing your problems on to someone else
 
The friend zone can be a beautiful thing:

you can twist a girls emotions after you become good friends with her and actually hook up with her haha

it's simple; and here are ten easy steps to make the friend zone the fun zone!

1. become friends with her

2. let her tell you all of her problems

3. actually fucking listen to them, so you can reflect in later steps

4. give that shit a solid month.

5. hang out with her, go do friend shit....ski, hang at the beach, climb...ect.

6. after another month (2 have gone by) start talkin about deep shit

7. ask her to hang again (when you're gonna hang with her this time, go to your house or something...make sure it's just you two)

8. ask her about things in her past that make her depressed

9. in her mental breakdown (she should be about to cry) lift her chin up and look into her eye's

10. proceed to hook up with the bitch..

Epilogue and further notes.

after hooking up, the bitch will feel bad, but you will always be friends..after you hook up once, you can do that almost every weekend after that. it works with most girls cause, tons of shit goes wrong in their life. plus you're not looked at as a player by any of them..cause bitches won't talk about it, nobody will think you're a douche either. all ya gotta do is follow those easy steps and make that bitch break down, then you have a lifetime supply of passes to vagina land.

The End (:

 
Only thing I would change is that "tons of shit goes wrong in their life", 95% of the time isn't that big of a fucking deal
 
Never Enter the freindzone then you wouldnt have problems /thread

It might take some time for people to notice you walk into the freindzone yourself.
 
Correction: starts begging for your cock. I've been in the friend zone a couple times. If you don't do anything with her... worthless.
 
Very Wise words. Just pulled some shit just like the cat analogy on a girl that was retarded enough to think I wasn't trying to bang. 3 days later. "I miss you"

 
see i am in a strange situation that i can't say i have experienced before. cool girl, been chilling with her and her friends for a while, but last weekend we went out to a party and I asked her to dance... long story short we danced the entire night, went back to her room, and hooked up... now I am realizing that she could have potential to be more than a friend, but i am having a really tough time reading her and telling if she feels the same way. last night, she wanted to hang out and watch a ski movie, so i was like word, got to her room and ended up watching her do homework for like 2 hours. she is really cool to talk to, but i'm like what the fuckkk the entire time, so eventually i'm just like "alright i'm going to bed, you want to come?" got straight up denied, because she had to finish her homework, even though she had been "working" on it for the past few hours. so yeah idk... probably shouldn't get to concerned over this as I have a fuck buddy back home, and a few other girls on campus that have been hitting me up lately, but at the same time, this girl is realllllly fucking cool. FUCK.
 
I have gotten out of the friend zone many times by just laying it out to the chick and just straight up asking "wanna fuck?" and it works most of the time. sometimes there is brutal rejection, but you just gotta have faith in yourself ya know? hit that ass homie
 
That awkward moment, when you find an awesome, mature chick, also banging, but realize she wont notice you still you're in your mid 20's, by then you've lost touch.

 
Even if you get out an end up dating her it will either be for like a year or she dump you and say how she just wants to be friends again
 
I was about to this is the bitch route, but the last two steps just made it straight up manipulative and sociopathic. I whole heartedly approve.
 
ya bro thats some manipulative shit. you could take it a notch higher and put nicotine patches on her in a way she doesn't notice, so she feels physically ill when she isn't with you.

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Ignore her. Boom. Problem solved.

I remember one time I read that the easiest way to get a girl to like you is to be there for her all the time and then stop for like a week. Then go back to being there for her and talking about problems and shit, then stop again. Girls go crazy when they are ignored. If you get a girl to start telling you things and start to share her thoughts with you, then just disappear from her life for like 3 days, you'll get an "I miss you" text or call almost every time. From experience I can confirm it too. If you can somehow make her aware that you are hanging with another girl while you aren't talking to her it works even better. It works WONDERS.

Be that person that someone mentioned earlier, pulling the string away from the cat. Its like when you're holding it above the cats head and it cant reach the string, eventually it'll lose interest and be content with not having the string, that's why you gotta be nice to girls on and off, so they don't really assign you the position of friend in their minds, so to speak.
 
Keep acting cool, don't seem too desperate. She is probably just playing hard to get, I've had my fair share of girls play mind game it's no fun. Just keep playing the field and if she throws you a line take it, I;m sure it's bond to happen if you've already hooked up.
 
I guess I am pretty late in here, but I really need to say something here.

The "nice guy" is not a guy who constantly expresses his feelings,

Usually guys get friend zoned when they actually have build enough attraction and comfort, but they just fear to express their romantic intent or whatever you wanna call it.

The girl has probably already shown interest in you, so you have no need to suddenly start showing disinterest in her or play it too indirect.

Instead show here interest! You could do it directly as the first girl said (who got shot down), which works perfectly if you are congruent enough, because it can really blow here away, or you could show her interest without telling here directly.

It is really up to you how, just start showing her interest instead of playing the friend card :)
 
found thread through searchbar because felt like posting this somewhere

"the tragic story of a nice guy"

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