My parents wanted to charge me 300$ a month to stay at home when I turned 18. At the time, I was working as a climbing guide, instructor, ski instructor, mogul coach and mowing lawns and made 300$ a month (remind you that minimum wage in 2006 was 8$/h). I was finishing a social sciences degree and had no idea what I was going to do with it. They were offering to help pay for another round of school (and if I dropped out or failed, I had to re-reimburse them).
At that point in my life, I wanted to ski everyday and climb mountains. But I was also broke as fuck and it seems I was always taken advantage of in the eco-tourism industry.
I threw a college guide book on the ground and marine engineering showed up. After giving it a read, I was interested in it, but I had no mechanical background (think mamas boy in the big city). I found a school, signed up and got accepted a few days later.
After 3 years, I graduated with a degree in Marine Engineering Technology, a 4th Class Canadian Marine Engineering certificate STCW and found a job in the shipping world a week later as an engineering officer on cargo ships. My first 3 years were hell; I hated working with assholes. But, after working with some great people, I built up the experience to be the senior engineer on the ships assigned for me. I still dont have a house, girlfriend, dog and a single shit-mobile, but I rack in 65G a year and ski everyday of winter and moved to the Kootenays. Life couldnt get much better, but it took a suicide attempt to realize how bad it was.
When people told me to fight hard for a job and try to change your fate by force, they are the type of people that was given everything since day 1. Life is pretty random and when opportunity knocks, take it and dont ever look back. Dont try to force a situation, just let it happen.