I know exactly how you feel. This one time I was going down for a big jump. I even asked the people on the chair lift above me if the jump was clear, along with the people next to me.. they all said yes. So I went for the jump, As I'm coming down for the landing I see a kid just chilling on the landing.
My skis land directly on top of him, and then pop both of them off. Sends me into a superman way down the hill. I didn't realize it right away, but I had broke my wrist badly. I ran up there to see if he was ok. I had knocked him out, I'm pretty sure he broke his shoulder, arm, along with cuts from the skis.
Afterwards people were bitching at me nonstop.
In your case, I don't think yelling at the staff helped. And while I completely understand what you're saying.. ski patrol blames you because ''the person in front of you has the right of away''.. even though the other rule in the ski code is not to stay on areas where you are obstructed by terrain and people can't see you.
Eat. Sleep. Breathe. Ski.