In life, there is one thing you are sure to find wherever you may go. That my friend, is stupid people. You have to learn to accept that stupid people are everywhere. There is no escaping it.
Dave aka ductapeboy over there just hit it right on the dot. Guys are not complicated at all, for the most part we are very straightforward. The simplest explanation is probably the right one. The problem is that many girls try to over-anaylaze things, there isn't always some hidden message in the things we do. We don't always mean what we say. Don't take things so seriously.
Some guys are jerks that just take advantage of girls, true.. but the same goes for girls. Lots of girls out there try to manipulate guys.
Guys are simple. We want skiing, food, sex, and tv. - and not necessarily in that order. That's it.
Eat. Sleep. Breathe. Ski.