How do I get this girl off my mind so I can study

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frostedTip

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so this girl and I started out as friends and we used to just kick it all the time... then realized we both wanted to fuck so we did that. And since we've been friends since before we had good chemistry and could talk about anything with each other. We still called each other "best friends" but who are we kidding I was in love (still am). Anyway we've been apart for a few months due to school and won't see each other til new years so now we're just snapchatting very occasionally. I just want to look in her eyes and hold her and kiss her again. One night stands from the bar just aren't the same anymore and I'm having trouble making connections with other girls which is unfortunate.

see the thing is... she's had a boyfriend the whole time. If she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you typa thing. And IK she's known to get around a bit. So I knew from the very beginning I'll never have the relationship with her I want. I knew the truth from the beginning but can't get myself to believe it. Once I got a taste of fucking my best friend I was doomed. but right now I gotta study for school goddammit so I can't drown my sorrows in liquor drugs and meaningless hookups. What do I do.
 
Sloots gonna Sloot.

I've learned this lesson too many times to talk about it. If she has a BF and hasn't left him... then you are her side piece. She's just an attention whore.

Find a good girl that won't cheat on her BF to be with you. You don't want to be with a cheater anyway.
 
topic:frostedTip said:
so this girl and I started out as friends and we used to just kick it all the time... then realized we both wanted to fuck so we did that. And since we've been friends since before we had good chemistry and could talk about anything with each other. We still called each other "best friends" but who are we kidding I was in love (still am). Anyway we've been apart for a few months due to school and won't see each other til new years so now we're just snapchatting very occasionally. I just want to look in her eyes and hold her and kiss her again. One night stands from the bar just aren't the same anymore and I'm having trouble making connections with other girls which is unfortunate.

see the thing is... she's had a boyfriend the whole time. If she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you typa thing. And IK she's known to get around a bit. So I knew from the very beginning I'll never have the relationship with her I want. I knew the truth from the beginning but can't get myself to believe it. Once I got a taste of fucking my best friend I was doomed. but right now I gotta study for school goddammit so I can't drown my sorrows in liquor drugs and meaningless hookups. What do I do.
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Let her go. Someone better is out there for you.

It's always best to be good friends first, but I'm thinkin' she is a user. Don't let her use you up.
 
14351242:larilinesign said:
Have you tried going skiing?
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14351270:FIRAT said:
Ski season is about to start bruh, that should take your mind of things
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yea I think this is the real problem I'm sitting here with only schoolwork, no skiing for months and my mind is racing... ofc my brain chooses now to make me think about a bunch of wack shit instead of focusing
 
Dude get her off your mind and focus on yourself. Tap her when you can but move on past her find someone you actually like
 
Manage your expectations.

and realize that sluts are often hard to possess the heart of.

but it sounds like you may have a keeper.

i hope it turns out well
 
topic:frostedTip said:
so this girl and I started out as friends and we used to just kick it all the time... then realized we both wanted to fuck so we did that. And since we've been friends since before we had good chemistry and could talk about anything with each other. We still called each other "best friends" but who are we kidding I was in love (still am). Anyway we've been apart for a few months due to school and won't see each other til new years so now we're just snapchatting very occasionally. I just want to look in her eyes and hold her and kiss her again. One night stands from the bar just aren't the same anymore and I'm having trouble making connections with other girls which is unfortunate.

see the thing is... she's had a boyfriend the whole time. If she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you typa thing. And IK she's known to get around a bit. So I knew from the very beginning I'll never have the relationship with her I want. I knew the truth from the beginning but can't get myself to believe it. Once I got a taste of fucking my best friend I was doomed. but right now I gotta study for school goddammit so I can't drown my sorrows in liquor drugs and meaningless hookups. What do I do.
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Just go all in with that girl. It’s probably not gonna work out. You’re probably gonna get hurt. But at the end of it all you will come out with an answer and the knowledge that you have tried and the ability to move on. Sometimes you need to make mistakes, even the ones you know are mistakes.
 
Easy: just put her, her boyfriend and their parents all in a Facebook messenger group and tell them exactly what you typed out in this thread. She’ll probably never talk to you again afterwards so then you won’t have to worry about her either.
 
Stop sleeping with a chick that has a boyfriend… she doesn’t love you dude, it’s called lust, and there’s a difference. Also she’ll totally cheat on you, and you’re probably most likely to do the same to her if your enabling it right now….

be the bigger man and block her or be an adult and say hey look you can break up and we can date, or bye Felicia cause you’re the worst- communicate-

cheating sucks dude don’t be a part of it

its probably why your miserable, there’s always more emotions involved when you know can’t have someone
 
14351548:theLiquor said:
Dude get her off your mind and focus on yourself. Tap her when you can but move on past her find someone you actually like
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yep don't let yourself get attached. I was banging this chick with a BF for literally almost a year and now she's pregnant with this dudes kid. THANK GOD ITS NOT MINE.

Imagine being with a girl who willingly bangs other dudes because she wants the attention.... fuckin whoooooores
 
14352457:VTshredder69 said:
yep don't let yourself get attached. I was banging this chick with a BF for literally almost a year and now she's pregnant with this dudes kid. THANK GOD ITS NOT MINE.

Imagine being with a girl who willingly bangs other dudes because she wants the attention.... fuckin whoooooores
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You did the other dude wrong bro.
 
14352522:frostedTip said:
Y’all act like I’m not beating my meat on the daily. Unfortunately PNC makes me more sad sometimes
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But FR. Stop sleeping with her. It isn’t worth it. If she comes back around when she’s single I’d pursue it but for now it’s a bad idea that only ends in pain.
 
Lmao good luck with that OP. I've been there and trust me when I say it doesn't end well. You cant turn a hoe into a housewife. Shes not different you've just put her on a pedestal.

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14352588:DominatorJacques said:
One can love sex, but sex is not love.

Love endures.

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see that's the thing about this one is that we actually cared about each other and hung out probably 3 nights a week on average for like 2 years prior to fooling around at all- I guess bc we both didn't want to make the first move and ruin everything. but then didn't see each other for a few months and first time we hung out again one thing led to another and god damn was it fun... she says I'm her favorite and that she loves me - but how am I supposed to believe that :''(

"She say she love me whatever that is (I dunno)

do me a favor save that shit" -SOSA
 
14352610:frostedTip said:
see that's the thing about this one is that we actually cared about each other and hung out probably 3 nights a week on average for like 2 years prior to fooling around at all- I guess bc we both didn't want to make the first move and ruin everything. but then didn't see each other for a few months and first time we hung out again one thing led to another and god damn was it fun... she says I'm her favorite and that she loves me - but how am I supposed to believe that :''(

"She say she love me whatever that is (I dunno)

do me a favor save that shit" -SOSA
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Like I say before, being friends first is a good thing.

Like others said, if she will do it to him, she might do it to you too.

It's a tough one. Could she just like putting notches on her bed post?

Maybe tell her, you can't "do it" with her again, because she is with another guy, and you are sorry you made a mistake.

If it's meant to be, in time you will find out.

Always take the high road. Admit your mistake. Sure, you loved it, but it was a mistake.

The old adage is true. Let her go. If she comes back to you single, then who knows.

Good luck, and a bit of skill never hurts.

OBTW, most women want a guy that makes money, so you kinda need to do your schooling.

**This post was edited on Nov 24th 2021 at 6:01:17pm
 
14352610:frostedTip said:
see that's the thing about this one is that we actually cared about each other and hung out probably 3 nights a week on average for like 2 years prior to fooling around at all- I guess bc we both didn't want to make the first move and ruin everything. but then didn't see each other for a few months and first time we hung out again one thing led to another and god damn was it fun... she says I'm her favorite and that she loves me - but how am I supposed to believe that :''(

"She say she love me whatever that is (I dunno)

do me a favor save that shit" -SOSA
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I mean bro… she has a boyfriend. She clearly doesn’t care about anyone. She just wants a convenient nut and you’re that convenient nut.

I hate to break it to you that way but you’re better than that, King. You dropped your crown here it is brother!
 
THINK OF SKIIERMANNNNNN THINK OF SKIERMAAAAAANNNNNNNNN

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