Help ns....don't want to fuck this all over..

Hamster.

Hamster.

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Well I'm sure many of you guys here on NS have had a similar experience, but yeah here we go....
So essentially at this very time I have two gorgeous women that I can have. Literally like them both a lot, they are a little bit different from each other in personality but both have their ups and downs. Looks is hard to compare, both and absolutely beautiful. One big plus is I'm about 95% sure they don't know each other so I can technically work both of them. But honestly NS, what should I do. If I end up picking one, how should I go about picking that one. It's honestly the hardest decision of my life so far...
 
honestly this sounds more like a claim thread than anything.
how would we know? pick the one you like more. sure they might both be great, but there's always one you like more
 
plus K man like your honestly so true. I know you can't help too much because you obviously don't know them, but like what should I think about when choosing the one?
 
What you should think to yourself is......which one of these Women can I have an intelligent conversation with? how many guys have they been with/ potentially caught even the slightest something from? Am I able to have condomless sex with either of them? How convenient is it to see one or the other? What am I Looking for out of a relationship/partnership?

....just my thoughts
 
Don't choose both, that's scummy and it'll end up blowing up in your face later on. You'll just end up with two girls who hate you instead of one you could have a good thing with, plus, if you actually like them why would you wanna hurt them that way? You definitely need to choose one girl if it's going further than just friends. Spend a little time hanging out with each (as friends, don't play them), talk to them about random stuff, and just see who you click with more. At the end of the day, which girl is hotter really isn't the most important thing, so don't make a decision based off that, especially if they're both attractive anyway. Go with the girl who makes you happiest, you have the most fun with, and who you're more comfortable around. That's the shit that really matters.

Oh, and ladies men for serious answers dude.
 
There is only one option available to you (and them). You all need to convert to Mormonism. I would highly recommend www.mormon.org to help in this endeavor. Link both of them (separately) to the live chat there, and start them on their conversion. As this is serious, you will need to put in a good amount of studying as well. Your core material should consist of all seasons of the TV series Big Love. After the proper research, conversion of the three of you, and the requisite move to Utah, you will all live happily ever after - together.
 
+k thanks really makes me think, i mean if i could put it in these words, (rating just on how much I like them) One of them is maybe like an 8.5-9 all the time, while the other one can be a 10/10 sometimes and a 6 or worse on some occasions. I mean I really love the times when she is a real 10/10 in every aspect of her life, but the 6 or worse makes me question it all...
 
honestly its past that for both of them. Like I'm actually talking to both of them at the same time, just nothing physical or official has happened. I mean both want to, they've made it clear.
 
glad to help, I feel kind of low mentioning the condom bit, but honestly, they suck. If both girls are as quality as you say they are, I'm sure they are clean, but if there is any way to know if one or the other takes the pill/is unopposed to plan B, this could influence your decision. I'm not sure how old you are, hope I'm not telling this to a 14 year old, you shouldn't have those anticipations at that age.
 
So which girl do you have more feelings for? I guess I have trouble understanding how you don't just naturally like one girl more than the other. I've had a thing for more than one guy at a time before, so I get that, but there's always one I like better and the other is sort of the backup plan.
 
^'backup plan' is a very cold term for a person. Guys can really find two Women equally attractive, it's a legitimately tough call.
 
I just didn't feel like quoting both of you but....
1. Nah dude I'm 16 I understand where your coming from and you are completely right, its a sign of love and trust to do it that way.
2. I'll just put the names out there to make it easier the one that is kinda hot and cold is Allie, the one thats a solid 9 all of the time is Dylaneigh. But to put it this way I feel like I have more feelings for Allie, but I not as confident in it all to work as with Dylaneigh.

 
If Allie's mood swings alot, that can be very emotionally taxing over time, and eventually a turn-off. Danyleigh seems like a better plan from a feeling perspective, which is what's most important. Consistent girls are a difficult find.
 
if you can swing both, then do it. Even if it completely blows up in your face eventually, it will be fucking great while it lasts.
 
Well what do you want me to call it? It's normal to like one person more than another. I don't get not being able to figure out in your head who you like more, because there are so many factors that go into it...it's impossible for two people to be dead even. Or at least, that's never happened to me.
 
It's not mood swings, its more her feelings towards me. I feel like its finally took a turn for the better recently, because after ending what was going to be a relationship about 2 weeks ago(she was kind of losing interest and flirting with other guys), she came back to me and said "I know I fucked up, I still love you" and even shared with me she starved herself and went through a lot of pain without me in her life. I hope things would last with her, but shes not as safe as a bet as Dylaneigh.
 
In that case, I suggest Allie. From the way you keep bringing her up, I would say that she is the one you care about more.
 
Well I just am not now, I'm trying to approach this in a mature matter because I really like both of them, and enjoy everything about them. Not just the action I can get from them, which is simple enough. Maybe one day I will have more hook ups and one night stands for the hell and fun of it, but these two girls honestly mean a lot to me.
 
this is almost what I needed to hear....
like Tom said I honestly am leaning towards Allie, but I don't know if its the right decision for me
 
That's cool dude, I gotta give you credit for that. It's kinda nice to see someone who isn't solely thinking about getting in the girls pants.
 
one really weird thing is too...I basically stay up all the time I run on 5 hours of sleep a day. Allie wakes up early, naps and goes to sleep early (doesn't mean she doesn't party, just her daily routine). Dylaneigh on the other hand wakes up later and stays up late, so I'm flirting hardcore with one at a time almost, such as right now with Dylaneigh. So I find myself fantasizing about either one at separate times during the day. It throws a curveball and makes the decision a lot harder.
 
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piece of advice #1: dont let it get to you. if the girls get the feeling that you're up yourself they'll immediately be less attracted to you. you could lose both of them.
#2: pick one and go for it. but don't lay yourself out for her. make her work a little bit so she understands that you're not just there for the taking. you've obviously worked out how to get girls to like you, but to keep them liking you you'll need to be mature and manly. women have a primordial instinct to go for stronger men who show leadership characteristics. its got a lot to do with basic survival (even though that doesn't really apply these days) but in essence you want to show her that you're a better man than any one else she could have.
 
I've never been in a situation like that (claim?) but I wouldn't let casual encounters be what brings you to a decision. Conversation is nice. Doing things is also nice. But if you're looking for a relationship with one the chicks, I would probably try to put them in a pressure situation, or something, to at least get some of their deeper colors showing. Maybe a short road trip (if you're like 15, go fuck yourself) or something more gritty. I'm not sure what that would entail, but people seem different once they get past where they're comfortable.
 
I'd recommend

1. Cleveland Steamer

A sexual act by nature (fetish) the cleveland steamer is when one person craps on another person's chest and (very important) then sits down and rocks back and forth like a steam roller.

2. Dirty Sanchez

after having anal sex, the man pulls out his penis and wipes it across his partners lip, forming an authentic looking mexican moustache.

3. Alaskan Fire Dragon

a sexual act in which a woman gives a man a blow job, as he ejaculates he shuts the womans mouth and whispers into her hear "I have syphilis", because of her astonishment, the cum comes out of her nose - - it looks like a dragon.

4. Alaskan Fire Dragon

when a girl is giving you a blowjob and when you are about to cum you grab her head, put some hot sauce on your dick and cram it into your dick and it will come out her nose and she'll look like a dragon
 
This is easy. which one would make you more excited to bring to the parents. Seriously.
And if that doesnt work. Tell your mom that your brining each one of them home for dinner ( on different nights of course ). Then tell the girls youd like to have dinner at home and see how they react. Maybe one of them isn't really looking for something and that's an easy way to find out.
No parents, suggest double date.
Still no answer, let your mom pick. Then you have leverage on her later on.
 
really it depends on what your interested in. If your looking for a serious long term relationship wiht one of these girls, then look for features in them that lend to that working out and being better for you. EX. Do they cook? how sexually active are they? do they ski? how do they feel about your freedom to go skiing when they want to go out to some shitty chickflick and dinner on your wallet? etc etc.

If your just looking to get some action for however long it works out I would focus more on things like are they down for buttsecks? do they like to suck your penis? do they engage in lesbian activity? do they have their own apartment? etc.
 
Dude, you need to ride this gravy train til it fucking de rails.

when you're married with kids and fucking ONE GIRL for the rest of your life you'll look back on this and say 'wow i should have fucked the shit out of them both for way longer. instead i was a bitch and caught feelings. Woops i'm late to pick up my kids from band practice' this is what men do when they're young and it's the only way you'll live your life free of regret.
 
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