The candles are not legit, the wax you see is created from the candle itself and not your ear.
Do not plug nose and blow with force, this can rupture your eardrum.
Do not stick a Q-tip past your outer ring of your ear, i.e. not into your ear hole.
Go to the pharmacy and/or natural whole foods type place and purchase an ear wax removal kit, ask someone there what the most popular one is, at this point do not get talked into the candles, like I said they are a farce. Purchase said kit, it should consist of a gel type substance you will put in your ear, let it sit then rinse with a turkey baster type applicator either with H2O or liquid that comes with the kit.
Be careful with your ears, they are fragile.