I don't believe any of that shit. most everyone decides within 5 secs of seeing someone whether or not they'd fuck them. women included.
for women, its those things you mentioned that make a lot more of a difference. but that doesn't mean shit, just look at studies on interracial dating. plenty of girls are just not attracted to men outside their race, and a guy could be as confident as he wants, it doesn't mean shit. just ask some girls you know about the height thing, they'll confirm what I said.
plenty of girls are not attracted to short guys. sorry. I'm skinny, some girls don't like that. it's just the way life is. don't let anyone tell you everything is a confidence issue. confidence is the key as long as you're within the parameters of attractiveness that the girl has. if you are way over her standards, a lot of times you could be as socially adept as a fuckin post and it wouldn't matter. and if you're under it, sorry, unless you are a mac and a half it's not gonna happen.