theblackrod
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I posted in ladies men already, but I takes time over there and believe it or not I know that through all the 15 year old 4chan bullshit I'm about to sift through it'll be work the couple good replies I may get.
Not really any sparknotes and my apologies for it being gigantic.
Background:
She is a college senior graduating in May, going to Europe for 2 months late June to late August with 3 friends and broke up with her last boyfriend because he could accept that she was going without him for that long.
I am a college Junior, my girlfriend broke up with me right before finals (well because she's a _ _ _ _ and played me out for another guy, another day another story.)
We were acquaintances of one of my roommates and hooked up one night in early February. Hung out a bunch, kept hooking up and was really starting to get the feeling she liked me and I like her. Through the first couple weeks of hooking up some nights she'd say things like "why couldn't I have met you earlier", stuff like that. Then after about 3 weeks of hooking up and hanging out a lot she wouldn't hang out, we texted all the time, both initiated by her and by me, but was always "busy". My buddy who is friends with one of her best friends said he asked her friend and she has been saying she likes being single (she has always been in long term relationships), but whenever she was drinking she talked to me, she acted like she liked me and wanted to hang out and her friend said if she had been drinking she wanted everything to do with me. So I kinda just let it go with her not wanting to hang out (week and a half before break) and went on spring and texted her here and there, and she would text me first a bunch of days. We got back last week and texted here and there and I invited her to the St Patty's day party we threw and she came and was all over me (both sufficiently drunk). On the walk back to her apartment she continuously talked about how much she liked me, how well things clicked with us and so on. Then asked if I would date her while in Europe, I responded yes if we were to get serious before hand I would be willing to do so. Kept walking back, talked about what she liked in me and so on, we hooked up and all that, hung out for a couple hours the next morning and she brought me back to my house because I had to work.
My question is what do I do at this point? I can tell she likes me and I really like her, but I'm having difficulty getting through this sober block up. Do I talk to her one day and just say I'm getting mixed signals and ask whats going on or should I just keep doing what I'm doing and see where that takes me?
I'm not trying to be some ladies guru but I can't say I've ever been stumped like this..
Not really any sparknotes and my apologies for it being gigantic.
Background:
She is a college senior graduating in May, going to Europe for 2 months late June to late August with 3 friends and broke up with her last boyfriend because he could accept that she was going without him for that long.
I am a college Junior, my girlfriend broke up with me right before finals (well because she's a _ _ _ _ and played me out for another guy, another day another story.)
We were acquaintances of one of my roommates and hooked up one night in early February. Hung out a bunch, kept hooking up and was really starting to get the feeling she liked me and I like her. Through the first couple weeks of hooking up some nights she'd say things like "why couldn't I have met you earlier", stuff like that. Then after about 3 weeks of hooking up and hanging out a lot she wouldn't hang out, we texted all the time, both initiated by her and by me, but was always "busy". My buddy who is friends with one of her best friends said he asked her friend and she has been saying she likes being single (she has always been in long term relationships), but whenever she was drinking she talked to me, she acted like she liked me and wanted to hang out and her friend said if she had been drinking she wanted everything to do with me. So I kinda just let it go with her not wanting to hang out (week and a half before break) and went on spring and texted her here and there, and she would text me first a bunch of days. We got back last week and texted here and there and I invited her to the St Patty's day party we threw and she came and was all over me (both sufficiently drunk). On the walk back to her apartment she continuously talked about how much she liked me, how well things clicked with us and so on. Then asked if I would date her while in Europe, I responded yes if we were to get serious before hand I would be willing to do so. Kept walking back, talked about what she liked in me and so on, we hooked up and all that, hung out for a couple hours the next morning and she brought me back to my house because I had to work.
My question is what do I do at this point? I can tell she likes me and I really like her, but I'm having difficulty getting through this sober block up. Do I talk to her one day and just say I'm getting mixed signals and ask whats going on or should I just keep doing what I'm doing and see where that takes me?
I'm not trying to be some ladies guru but I can't say I've ever been stumped like this..
