Guys! what do you really like?

Just skiing in general is a huge bonus. The girl doesn't have to throw down and shred the park. But looks are a huge bonus, i won't go after any hideous girls, but does not need to be a 10. And totally agree with the smarts, like i just hate when a girl doesn't get anything, it's common sense they need, not straight A's.
 
Rails? I'm a banger at rails.. Do them pretzels, K-fed.. whatever, but Norway is sick right now.. so much snow, its like every handrail is an urban feature... So i might not leave..
 
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well i guess obviously she'd have to be attractive (which goes both ways), but other than that it comes down to how comfortable with herself she is. she has to be her own woman, if that makes any sense, confident but not a bitch. you can tell by how a girl holds herself whether shes a bitch or insecure. a pretty girl who knows how to have fun is hard to pass up..

im sure this has happened to some dudes here, but enough times i'll be hanging out and there might be a girl chilling who i don't think is drop dead gorgeous and at first she's just whatever.. but after hanging out more and finding out shes a ton of fun, she's all of a sudden the only thing i think about.

on the contrary, if your a drop dead gorgeous girl and your a complete bitch.. then i just want in your pants.

 
Honestly the girl has to be able to shut off girlfriend mode. I need my girl to be able to hang out with me and my friends, and her friends, etc, and not be all over me all the time. Be able to just chill out and have fun without wanting to be all snuggly and shit. Don't get me wrong, I love snuggling and kissing, but not when hanging out with other people. That is for one on one. So she has to be a friend, and a girlfriend.
 
I don't mind going to a friends house with my girl to watch an even and sitting on the couch with my arm around her shoulders and her leaning against me as long as she isn't trying to get all intimate.
 
nail on the head.

The 'friend' in girlfriend actually means FRIEND before anything, and as much as I may be attracted to a girl, or think she's a total babe, i'm not even going to THINK of dating her if she cannot be a good friend first and foremost.
 
I like your style.

If he can't turn off boyfriend mode, its not fun. I need to be able to act like myself, whether it just be goofy or partying or playing pool. I don't my friends to feel like they are a third wheel or that we're oh so into each other. But whatever goes down between the sheets is a completely different ballpark.
 
1. Can hold a conversation

2. Somewhat attractive

3. Goofy (I am a sucker for goofy girls)

4. Skiing is a big bonus and so is loving the outdoors and camping/boating/hiking/etc.

5. Honest and I can trust her (Probably the biggest one)

And I am surprised this thread has gotten decent responses and no like "Likes me to pee in her butt"
 
fun to hang out with, creative and caring, able to be not fully attached at all times and not clingy, smart in school and intellectually, able to hold a deep conversation for awhile yet they need to be secure with who they are, they need to have courage and stand up for themselves, also if they're very giving on the material and non-material aspect its always good ;) gotta have a girl who takes you out for steak n shake after giving your steak some shaking.
 
1.She has to be a fun girl. 2.She also has to love to be outside in nature. 3.She has to be attractive with either legit blond hair or brown also its gotta be her natural hair color. 4.Skiing is not mandatory but as stated above loving to be outside is.5.Not a bitch, down to earth, not super smart or stupid just averaged.6.Needs to have her own activities not just clinging to me all the time, i need my me time.7.Can talk about deep stuff with me.8.Not shopping crazy.9.Has lots of energy.10.She has to where clothes like jeans, boots, flannel, wool.11.Has to know how to dress herself when its cold this is kind important cause i hate people that complain about being cold.12. She has to be interested in me13. She has to be nice and cool
All this is just me being anal but most of these things are important.
 
creamy skin

straight teeth

curly hair

amazing breasts

not for me, for my children

i produce very thirsty babies
 
I like someone who can just be themselves. You don't need to dress up everytime I see you. Don't get pissed about stupid shit. Don't expect me to give you everything you want. Just be real and be down to earth. I hope that makes sense.
 
chill but with a lil side of rowdy, reasonable (jealous psyco shit talker lives for gossip girl), can take a joke and understands when people are joking, smart and attractive with a side of steez.
jesus christ i feel like im writing for cosmo or teen people or something...
 
let me start by saying, Im so amazed that it took until page 2 for a pic of tits to pop up. For once NS managed to come through with some solid responses...
That being said Ill throw in my non-pre-pubescent 2 cents. There really isn't any one thing or another that makes me pick one girl over any other one. Really when it comes down to it, for me its all about feeling the vibes and asking yourself if this is a person you want to spend more time with. If the answer is yes, then go for it. One of my big realizations here at a 13k person school was that if it doesn't work out, chances are I never see her again. Nothing ventured nothing gained
 
good figure. Pretty/cute face. One you can have a convo with and is cool not stupid hah. Someone that isnt necessarily too against doing stuff etc..depending on your age..IMO.
 
all of what the people above said cept i think there is a factor missing that hasn't been mentioned...
For long term possibilities you have to factor in parents,
what her mom looks like cuz the apples never fall far from the tree, how much money her parents have, and how many siblings it's going to be divided among.

ok not really... but seriously if you thinking long term her parents have to be decent as well other wise if shes a family girl and you have to go do a lot of the in-law family stuff, it can be a deal breaker...
 
ok srsness.

She canNOT be trashy.

-Drinking is ok, but on rare occasions, and she cant be a crazy wild "party girl" when she drinks.

-No weed. Sorry NS.

-Has to have a solid family life.

-Not ridiculously sexual. But knows when to be sexy for sure. I don't want a megaslut.

-Dark eyes, reallly dark brown hair, dark skin. But natural. And not toooo insanely dark of skin. Just a lil brown.

-Slim, but not skinny. Athletic build is always nice.

-Nice curves for sure.

-COMMON SENSE PLEASE. Hate dumb girls.

-Loyal

-INITIATIVE INITIATIVE INITIATIVE. Gotta have a chick that isn't afraid to take the first step sometimes. Guys don't need to lead the way all the time.

Holy sheet im picky.
 
Knowing what you want is not the same as being too picky. There are plenty of us who are actually like that, but we don't get as much attention because we don't usually make as big of a scene as some other girls do.
 
Girl who is cool and fun to be around. Have similar interests as me, open to trying new things. Not all about getting wasted and partying (harder to find than anything). Has goals in life but willing to accept change. Listens to good music and isnt ashamed of her past, but doesnt have a million skeletons.
 
to summarize this thread as i might have said earlier

A girl who will treat you to steak n' shake after shaking your steak..... ;)
 
I would like a girl who's not a trend whore, someone who is loves who they and knows who they are, and doesn't try and show it off. A girl who can hold a conversation is a huge thing. I hate bitchy girls and girls who think they are the shit and act like everyone wants them. I also don't like girls who automatically think your hitting on them when your just trying to talk and get to know them.
 
a girl that doesn't have her phone attached to her ear or is playing on her smart phone in social interactions.

hardly uses facebook

totally genuine/modest/humble

doesn't need to have all the new shit.

takes her own path when it comes to trends. doesn't care what anyone things/ does her own thing

minimalist

interesting to talk to/can keep a conversation going instead of waiting for me to keep asking her stuff.

self-esteem-not clingy. do her own thing/independent

no ultimatums because i don't bend for that childish bullshit.

strong minded/willed, but feminine in character.

and takes care of her body.
 
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