Guys! what do you really like?

Isabelle

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Me as a girl can't understand guys,

I mean what do you really look for in a girl?

cause sometimes I see this really cool and nice guy with this stupid but nice looking girl.

tell me what do you as a guy want?

be a little serious please :)
 
for me personally the intelligence thing is pretty important. dumb girls (or dumb people in general) really just annoy me. like they don't need to be really school smart, but people with no common sense drive me insane. so that's really important in my book. looks are good too, but i honestly think personality is more important. when you're in a relationship with someone it's not going to be entirely physical, you need to be able to talk. does that make sense, or am i just rambling here?
 
I agree with you pesonality is more important. but there has to be a physical attraction to.

and I've got the same problem with dumb people, they annoy me, but they don't have to be good at school that that doesn't interest me.
 
good grades in school can show very little correlation with being intelligent. at least you got that. but idk, shes gotta know her way around 2 slices of bread and meat cheese and lettuce if you know what im sayin.
 
its true being attractive is what will get the guy interested in you in the first place, very few guys will go for an uggo just because he agrees with her political ideals or something. and dont try to be competitive witth him b/c if you beat him at something he thinks hes good at he'll probably hate you

also: don't ever say the word 'like' unnecessarily. its like, so like annoying!

hope this gives you some insight

 
intelligent enough to be engaging and carry a conversation yet also somebody interesting and fun to hang out with who's not constantly nervous and worried about her image. since i've had such issues with awkward girls in the past for me it's all about somebody who's relaxed and outgoing. nervousness at first is understandable and i have nothing against it, but don't continue it if you can help it

skiing helps but it's not a requirement, it's just one more thing to do together/talk about
 
lol you may be asking the wrong group of people. only because more than half are prepubescent 15 year old boys =D
 
A chicks gotta have some confidence, shes gotta know what shes doing. More specifically, she has to know how to hold a conversation, how to carry herself (image) yet not be a stuck up 'my shit does't stink' chick. So basically a confident, intelligent walk/talk, oh and some bangin looks never help.

hope that helps :)
 
its less difficult to say what i DONT like xD and there are two things i got in my mind now:

1. women who think that we only care about the looking and not about personality and spend more then 98% of their lifetime to look good

2. women who doesnt let men have hobbies (ex. "why is skiing more important then me??" or "why do you like your buddies more then me?"

for me a women has to be natural and in my opinion beautiful =/= wear tons of make up

i hope you understand what i want to say ;)
 
Good sense of humor, intelligent, isn't one of those "treat me like a princess" girls, but also is attractive.
 
if your hair is dyed black, your skin tan/orange, you wear uggz on a regular basis, and are loaded up with shiny shit whether it be your ears or bracelets etc.

that. makes. me. hard.
 
oh yeah another thing, a girl has to be understanding. Ha its like shes gotta understand that when there is snow on the ground, I'm gonna be skiing, and she can come too, but I'm gonna be skiing lol. Plus guys need their guy time too, just like girls have their girl nights, so ladies, don't be upset when every waking minute isn't spent txting or chillin with you
 
"A girl is like dinner, great if it tastes good, even better if it looks nice"- Mike Bowden
^You've gotten this answer a couple times already, just worded differently.
Every guy, whether he admits to it or not, feels this way about girls.
Me? I'd never date a girl that I wouldn't marry. And I view marriage as a life long commitment. For better or for worse. I've dated once (I'm 20), we talked about kids, beliefs, traditions, family differences, and ultimately decided it wasn't wise for us to get married.
What do I want? I want a girl who wants to be with me. One who isn't afraid to point out when I'm wrong, but not in an overbearing manner. I want her to be my best friend.

Ok, I feel silly now.
 
girls who don't whine and complain all the time...^^rather hang out with a 7 thats chillax then a 10 that keeps whining and complaining about stuff....
 
I understand this, but did you really ever met a girl that didn't let you have your guy time? or let you go skiing? and got upset that your not texting her all the time? cause I think those girl only exist in movies.

Because if theres snow I'm skiing too no matter what. so I understand that guys have there thing too.
 
actually I have, believe it or not, but shit gets really annoying, its smothering and a real turn off. I mean I like a girl that wants me and calls/txts me, but I have a life too, you know what I mean. Plus you ski, so you wouldn't want any guy txting you all the time when your riding. When I ride, I ride, fuck anything else lol
 
Yea I know what you mean haha you just met the wrong girl cause I think most of them want you to have a life too. et least I would, cause I want mine to. and yea when I ride I ride haha
 
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i find it hard to talk to women who are less than a 7, it sounds a little selfish, but thats just how i feel. but when things go deeper, personality is as important. its just a "feel" thing, but if a girl isnt pretty at all, chances are that we will never talk more than 20 words...
and i personally hate this freeski/snowboard style (streetwear) on women. baggy pants, skate shoes and xxl hoodies are so unsexy its not even funny
 
I kinda agree with you, when I'm skiing I do wear XXL hoodies and stuff, but after just wear a nice pair of skinny jeans and stuff, afterall I'm a girl.
 
i am not sure i would want to date a skier. i mean, its a bonus if she is active and willing to be adventerous, but skiing would kinda be like my time to myself.

active. good to talk to. genuinly nice person(its amazing how many people i meet that arent). fun.
 
I can understand that, but you can tell your girl to go ski somewhere else cause you want some ski time for yourself haha tell her in a nice way ofc.
 
I like nice italians girls named isabelle. hehe. IDK maybe a girl that is healthy and likes to take care me.
 
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