here's the facts: for every girl, no matter how annoying, or hurt looking, there's at least 4 dudes who want to bang her. every girl. you can't escape you're problem. guys are just horny man, so regardless of any girl's malfunction some dudes, somewhere, wants to stick her.
so, basically, you have the same problem everyone everywhere who's in a relationship has.
so, basically, nobody feels bad, and no one can solve your problem, because it's only a problem if you let it bother you. live your life.
epilogue:
conversely, for every dude, there's probably 4 girls who want to bang him, girls are just more secretive with their urges. So, she's got the same problem you've got, even if she doesn't know it.