Guys and Girls, i need some advice

Mr_Papageorgio

Mr_Papageorgio

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k so heres the deal...i asked a girl to prom that at the time, i was diggin. now im not so much and am regretting the decision because of another girl that ive been closer with for much longer, she and i have finally stopped dickin around with the whole just friends thing. So heres my predicament, next weeks my prom and id much rather spend the night with the girl i should have asked. shes goin with a kid i dont really care to much for.. so do i steal her away from this clown for a majority of the time or show him some respect and leave her alone, and have to spend most of the time with my date, the one i regret asking?

share your thoughts
 
ummm well dont be a dick and go with the person you asked. believe me i went to prom last year and got totally ignored and it was a terrible prom. so dont ruin her prom dickhead. and when its all over just see what the other girl wants to do. you guys could just all hang out together.
 
ya i wouldn't dump your date last minute that 's a really fucked up thing to do. it's one night just go with it, you can always hang out with that other girl at the party after prom!
 
don't fuckin ditch the girl you asked first. also don't ditch her when you get to the prom and go hang out with the other girl. that happend to my mate at our last formal he invited this girl from another school paid for her ticket, flowers pre drinks n all that stuff then when we got there she just ditched him and went and hung out with other people, wouldn't even sit at the same table as us. honestly she just ruined his night and made it kinda skward for the rest of my mates cause we were all feeling a bit bad for him.

So the moral of the story is: go with the girl you asked first and hang out with her while you're at the prom, otherwise you're gonna hurt her, I mean girls go all out for these kinda things so don't be a douche and ruin it for her.
 
yeah stay with the girl you asked but i think you should still steal the other girl away from that other guy for a few dances. you gotta be territorial
 
Respect the original girl you asked but try to have fun because if you go with her, yet you spend the night acting as though it was a mistake, it won't be fun for anybody.
 
nooo im not gonna not take her im just talkin once i get there i dont wanna be with her too long. i would never do that after shes gotten a dress and stuff.
 
well thats good- but like the guys said, you can't just ignore her. she's prolly pumped and looking forward to it and if you don't even fake being happy being there- then she will pick up on it, trust. i think it's one night you gotta spend with this girl, and if things are going so great with you and your more-than-friends-girl, well then you've got plenty of time ahead of you to be whatever.

i'm sure she wants to go with you two, but you guys gotta respect your original obligations and just suck it up.
 
My JR prom, I asked a friend of mine and about a week before prom she started going out with a guy that she had liked for a while but had had a girlfriend so prom came and she had dinner with me and we hung out for a bit, but she wasn't interested in anything but her boyfriend (we were friends, but that was it) and then she ditched me, which sucked. So ya, be sure to at least pretend you're interested - it sucks otherwise.
 
well you definitely have a reason to not take her and go with the one you want, but heres scenario 2. you still go with girl one but you let girl 2 you want to go with her so bad but dont want to be an asshole to the first girl. tell her you'll make up for it at the after party, get her mind going and bring something to the after party for her. like if you know where the party is going to be then buy a bottle of champagne and 2 glasses and hide it somewhere near the party.
 
Dude go with the girl you asked. It's never as bad as it seems. She would be heartbroken if you went with the other girl unless you can work it out on good terms.
 
You should definitely go with the girl you asked, bc that would be such an asshole move to ditch her, try and chill with the other girl afterwards
 
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